whitelakeguy Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 (edited) Back story: My gf left her husband. She had cheated on him for a while with her friends husband before she met me. She told me this in confidence. They divorced and we'd been together the next two years. I started to perceive she was starting to see someone else. I suspected she went back to F-ing her friend's husband. I asked the friend / wife if her husband was gone nights because my gf was not responsive at nights. Turns out he was gone nights to work. I suspected him even more. I told the wife I did not trust the situation. She asked why...what do I know. I implied I knew a lot and was skeptical of this. Later I found out it was not him. But the wife was pissed and more suspicious of her husbands past than ever. Also I blew my GFs trust. I want to appologize to the wife, but I need a good reason why I was suspicious or why I even contacted her other than knowing of husbands past with my GF. Any ideas would be appreciated. Edited April 24, 2015 by whitelakeguy
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 You want help lying about an affair your current gf had with your friend's husband? ...... You obviously do not trust your GF, and for good reason. Why you think this is a good relationship to stay in is beyond me. Maybe you should question yourself on why you are in this relationship. My only advice is to come clean to the wife and dump your girlfriend. The only apology you should be making to the wife is for keeping this information from her for so long.
mightycpa Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 I want to appologize to the wife, but I need a good reason why I was suspicious or why I even contacted her other than knowing of husbands past with my GF. Any ideas would be appreciated. So I'm having trouble here with what exactly you're trying to cover up... is it that your GF was ****ing the woman's husband, or that the husband was being unfaithful to his wife? I think that the only sensible thing for you to do is to start banging the innocent wife. That is the only act that can make all the deceit make sense, that will balance the books all the way around, and that will justify the lying and betrayal.
Jessie1231 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 I remember your girlfriend from your other thread. She sounds like a lying, cheating mess honestly. Let the friend/wife know what you know, and be done with all of them. Find someone who doesn't cheat during every relationship they have. 1
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