Ultimate Gal Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 I'm super new to this website and I hope I can get great response. Let's jump right in. So I'm 18 and this guy I've been knowing is 16/17 (I'm not sure). I'm a senior in high school, he is a junior. We live in different states but he only lives 30 minutes to and hour away. I see him at church every time I visit my dad and family. Just 3 days ago, we started talking on Facebook, we never talked. I kind of knew that he was possibly dating my cousin (I barely talk to her at all). But I felt there was something a bit off. We didn't say nothing much inappropriate. He just tried to get me to tell him I like him. So yes I've had a crush on him but it wasn't major. But the next day, He tells me he likes me but he has a girlfriend (of several months) in which is was my cousin but he doesn't know we are cousins. He told me not to tell my step mom because she kind of talk to much. So I told my sister (my step mom and my dad's child) the situation. She went back and told my step mom. My sister said she didn't say much when she told her. Today, my sister tells me that my cousins mom told my step mom that him and her daughter liked each other supposedly but they are actually dating. He told me not to tell my step mom that we were talking, which I didn't and he told me not to tell any one about him dating his girlfriend, which I didn't. Im stuck. I think my step mom told my aunt that he likes me and she might tell my cousin and it going to be bad. I've never dated or talked to a boy like this. For me it's always been about school. I didn't need anyone distracting me from getting my education. But when I start talking to one, it ends up like this. I this all may be a tad bit confusion. But I just need to know what to do when someone likes you and have a girlfriend and what to do if that girlfriend knows? Thank you for reading my post. Your responses are greatly needed!
Satu Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 Too complicated. Find a boy who isn't buried under a mountain of spaghetti. 1
Author Ultimate Gal Posted April 24, 2015 Author Posted April 24, 2015 Yeah. I don't want to ruin a relationship. I've never ruined or tried to ruin one. It's just to much for me and I've never even dated before
preraph Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 Just remember that even if he dumped his girlfriend to be with you -- that would mean he would probably do the same thing to you down the road, so you'd never be able to trust him. Look for someone who won't dump their gf to get to know a new girl and then you've got a real prize!
wb1988 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 You need something to do in between classes and homework right? Go for it girl.
lana-banana Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 Just remember that even if he dumped his girlfriend to be with you -- that would mean he would probably do the same thing to you down the road, so you'd never be able to trust him. Look for someone who won't dump their gf to get to know a new girl and then you've got a real prize! Rubbish. No one ever left a happy, fulfilled relationship to be with someone else. Discovering someone else you like more is a completely legitimate reason to break up with someone, especially when you're in your teens, for Christ's sake. Having said that, OP, I wouldn't tangle with this guy. It's too complicated right now. Tell him to give you a call if he decides he wants to be with you. If he does really care about you and want to be with you, he will. If he spends months whining about how haaaard things are you can rest assured he's just a waste of time.
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