rocketman988 Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 So I've been with this girl for almost two years. We haven't seen each-other in over four months- she was in an accident and had to be with her parents during her recovery. Throughout this time, we've had fights, broken up, gotten back together etc. During the most recent fight, we argued and both said things we didnt mean. I sent her flowers, sent other things to tell her I was sorry and serious about her. I've been no contact with her for about 9 days and its kinda rough. Im not sure if I should give her more space or try and talk to her. Any thoughts or insights from others would be great!
Satu Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 If you can't get along peacefully, there's no point being together.
LeaveMeAlone Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 I've been no contact with her for about 9 days and its kinda rough. Im not sure if I should give her more space or try and talk to her. Any thoughts or insights from others would be great! You walk away and never turn back, simple as. If she contacts you, or reaches out in any way, you invite her on a date or over to your place. You do something fun and you hook up. Easy. If she doesn't contact you, then **** it ... move on. In this NC, you go date other women and take your mind of your ex. P.S Don't listen to the bull**** I hear so often on this site --- "If your ex loves you and wants you back, she'll let you know". BULL**** ... if she wants you back, she'll orbit you ... she'll reach out, and it's your responsibility to invite her over for a nice dinner together at yours.
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