PaperCrane Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 I don't get it sometimes. I meet a girl, we flirt lightly for a couple weeks in passing. I introduce myself, we swap numbers and talk for a while. I ask if she'd like to spend some time together, I know a nice place, and suddenly it's all about not wanting a relationship. Bah, why even waste my time? Actually had hope for this one. /rejectionrant
Redhead14 Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 I don't get it sometimes. I meet a girl, we flirt lightly for a couple weeks in passing. I introduce myself, we swap numbers and talk for a while. I ask if she'd like to spend some time together, I know a nice place, and suddenly it's all about not wanting a relationship. Bah, why even waste my time? Actually had hope for this one. /rejectionrant You don't know it's a waste of time until you know . . . just accept the fact that there will be more strike outs than there will be hits. But when you hit it just right, it's a home run and worth all the up at bats 2
smackie9 Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 Maybe you look good, but when they finally get to talk to you they don't like your vibe or find you boring. Need to work on being more aloof, cocky, witty, flirty, mysterious. **Note: a girl determines within 7 seconds whether you are BF martial or not.....that's how quickly a females analyzes potential.....so make those first seconds count.
Redhead14 Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 Maybe you look good, but when they finally get to talk to you they don't like your vibe or find you boring. Need to work on being more aloof, cocky, witty, flirty, mysterious. **Note: a girl determines within 7 seconds whether you are BF martial or not.....that's how quickly a females analyzes potential.....so make those first seconds count. A girl who is only interested in what guy looks like will make that determination in 7 seconds. A woman who takes the time for a date will take the time afforded to make a deeper analysis. A guy can have his "date game on" with his aloofness, cockiness, wittyness, etc. Those things don't make a man boyfriend material. A few well-placed, well-timed, and strategic questions, will give her the information she needs to determine whether he even has the potential to be a boyfriend if she wants one. You can have a fun, casual conversation that gleens important information without coming off like it's an interview 1
fitnessfan365 Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 By the time you get around to asking her out, she sees you as a friend. 1) You wait two weeks until introduce yourself. 2) You talk to her for awhile before asking her out. When you see a woman you're attracted to and you flirt lightly with her, introduce yourself right there on the spot. Get her number on the first interaction. Then follow up, and ask her out ASAP. Example -I met a woman online on Tues. Exchanged two emails a piece, got her number, called her, and made plans for a future date all on that first day. She even commented on how she liked that I didn't beat around the bush and that my confidence was hot. When you start cutting to the chase faster, women respond much better. 1
Author PaperCrane Posted April 24, 2015 Author Posted April 24, 2015 Yeah I for sure need to cut to the chase much more quickly. By talk for a while I meant about 30 minutes of conversation. Once I got the number I went right for it. Getting the number took some time due to time restriction. You're right though, the first time I noticed I should have introduced myself and went from there.
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