enchanted771 Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 Dumped this guy recently. He completely changed. I don't know if it's midlife or he's just a creep. He was lying, being manipulative and disrespectful. When he called me "homie" it was the last straw. When I tried to talk to him he continued being disrespectful, so I broke it off. He just was not the same man. He showed he's very self absorbed and into himself and obsessed with mirrors lol. Anyways, when I broke it off he acted like he didn't care...I have a tendency to look at what he's into and it prevents me from closing the door. I just found things that show even more so how into himself he really is. Advice how to just stop thinking of him and caring so much.
Chi townD Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 In a nutshell? The key is to KEEP BUSY!!!! Get new hobbies, join a gym, take some classes, join some clubs, travel, meet new people. KEEP BUSY!
sutsie Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 Just go no contact and give it anywhere between 30-90 days and you won't be worried about it anymore. If you're interested in bitter sweet revenge then get hot as hell, successful, and pretend you never dated him.
Author enchanted771 Posted April 23, 2015 Author Posted April 23, 2015 In a nutshell? The key is to KEEP BUSY!!!! Get new hobbies, join a gym, take some classes, join some clubs, travel, meet new people. KEEP BUSY! Just go no contact and give it anywhere between 30-90 days and you won't be worried about it anymore. If you're interested in bitter sweet revenge then get hot as hell, successful, and pretend you never dated him. You are both correct. Thank you. It has been hard because I should have just moved on a long time ago but I kept trying to make it work. But I saw what kind of women he is really into and some disgusting things you would think a 21 year old would do not a 43 year old man. It was very degrading so I have to make a clean break now.
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