chelseamoon Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 (edited) My ex broke up with me 5 months bac, we're both girls we continue to live together due to kids from prev rel & bills so moving out isnt option so need fiqure it out without doin that pls. Anyways i was heartbroken n still struggle to move on and she knows this but she doesnt want me so iv to accept. Anyways iv been super nice to her last while. Mindin her child wen she needed it and been a friend. But problem is wen it comes to me asking to mind she makes me feel crap, becus my youngest is a baby (from iui) and her child is 2. If i go out (once every 2 months maybe) she gets all moody and says dont be ages. Sooo if we fight i just put it over my head as im sick of fighting. What do i do. How do i behave becus im sick of it and just want things go back way they where. She started saying studf now like she dont agree with gay marriage and acting super girly. She will talk to me no bother but she looks at me like im dirt sometimes or if i touch her to pass by her i feel her hating this. Then other days she does be looking at me or been super nice. I the dope texted the other day that i miss her sometimes and she didnt tb.if if i give her space she sulks and if i be so nice she walks all over me. I dont understand why its so hard for her ro just tell me how she really feels and i want to no how to behave around her to get her missing me. Im not a bad person om too bloody soft and i just want her chasing me now or giving me something. What do i do to make her see I love her or do I play hardball. It easy to say move on wen i Hate that i still love that so much * Edited April 23, 2015 by chelseamoon
Ruby65 Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 Well, if you don't want to move on and you don't want to move out... what options are left? Continue to live with her and continue to want someone who doesn't want to be with you anymore. Sadly, there's no way of making someone want to be with you if they don't. I don't see how you can even try to make her miss you if you're still living together and still letting her know how you feel about her. She can't miss you if you don't go away. I would say to work on accepting that the romantic part of your relationship is over and on developing the other parts of your life that make you happy. The happier and more self-reliant you are, the more attractive you'll be to your ex and everyone else. The happier you are without her.... the less you need her.... and it becomes a win/win situation for you, whether or not she takes you back. 1
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