I' torn between two best friends. All 3 of us were BF.1 betrayed the other. PLS HELP!

[IhavenoFREAKINclue]

OK so on the cruise I just went on there were some problems. Me and my 2 best friends came with me My one BF "Mary" went out with my brother on and off for 2 years. "Jane" is our other BF that as been secretly hooking up with my brother for some time now. So while we were on the cruise, Mary found Jane in bed with my brother. Not good. I know that they are broken up but Mary and my brother had a long relationship and this is her best friend in bed with him. So fist were thrown yada yada. Now heres the problem. I am trying to be as neutral as possible. I have known Jane for longer. I know that she was wrong and it may have been a drunken mistake but I have known Jane for 8 years and Mary for about 3. Now i want to remain friends with both but I don't know how this can happen. I have a wedding coming up and I asked Jane to come with me. Mary got mad. I asked Mary to come to a party with me, Jane got mad. What should I do?

[Merin]

Damn that MaryJane!

 

Honestly I would tell both of the girls that you're NOT getting involved.. ya love em both, and this is your Brothers deal..

[IhavenoFREAKINclue]

Originally posted by Merin

Damn that MaryJane!

 

Honestly I would tell both of the girls that you're NOT getting involved.. ya love em both, and this is your Brothers deal..

 

But this is something expected from my brother so he deosn't care.

[Merin]

Originally posted by IhavenoFREAKINclue

But this is something expected from my brother so he deosn't care.

 

I understand...

 

STILL I would tell both of your Girls that you love them both and you don't want to get put in the middle... you didn't sleep with either one of them ya know? AND you're not responsible for what your Brother does OR the choices either one of your friends made regarding him....

[IhavenoFREAKINclue]

Originally posted by Merin

I understand...

 

STILL I would tell both of your Girls that you love them both and you don't want to get put in the middle... you didn't sleep with either one of them ya know? AND you're not responsible for what your Brother does OR the choices either one of your friends made regarding him....

 

Good advice Merin, Thank you

[Merin]

Originally posted by IhavenoFREAKINclue

Good advice Merin, Thank you

 

You're welcome Sista

[CurlyIam]

If your bro doesn't care, I think you should talk to both of them and let them know that they've been played. Both of them.

 

You? Blood is thicker than water, so they should leave you alone.

 

Main point: they have to make up. If it's not possible, I'm afraid you'll have to just pick one and dump the other. That's life!

[IhavenoFREAKINclue]

Originally posted by CurlyIam

Main point: they have to make up. If it's not possible, I'm afraid you'll have to just pick one and dump the other. That's life!

 

Problem is, which one? The one i've known for longer is wrong in the situation.

[CurlyIam]

The one you love most. Who cares how the situation is? It will chill out in a couple of months. Besides, no one's perfect. And I think in time, she'll realise she was wrong. Will she ever admit it? that's another story.

 

You have to distance yourself from this story, girl. Or else you'll lose both your friends.

 

 

As I see it, they have a problem. You are there to be supportive and understanding, not to be the judge. Take a break from this pressure, you're not seeing the forest because of the tree!