Ruby65 Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 She replied few minutes later, "I understand why it's hard for you, and I'll respect that of course. I'm sorry for everything I put you through. I hope you realise that there's a special place in my twisted old heart for you." Translation: "No worries! I'm fine now that I know you're still available as a Plan B option, but I'll pretend to be understanding now that I got what I wanted anyway. Thanks for the ego-stroke -- this cute guy I like ignored me on Facebook yesterday and I was feeling really insecure.... but he just messaged me this morning so everything's fine now." Time to BLOCK -- on your phone, on your email, on every site and app you use. And by the way -- taking anti-depressants is no excuse for throwing out breadcrumbs and using your ex-boyfriend as an emotional tampon. That's on HER. 3
Author lumberjac Posted April 23, 2015 Author Posted April 23, 2015 Translation: "No worries! I'm fine now that I know you're still available as a Plan B option, but I'll pretend to be understanding now that I got what I wanted anyway. Thanks for the ego-stroke -- this cute guy I like ignored me on Facebook yesterday and I was feeling really insecure.... but he just messaged me this morning so everything's fine now." Time to BLOCK -- on your phone, on your email, on every site and app you use. And by the way -- taking anti-depressants is no excuse for throwing out breadcrumbs and using your ex-boyfriend as an emotional tampon. That's on HER. Thanks Ruby. I know I f-cked it up somehow.
Chi townD Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 Yeah, after her response back to you after you broke NC sounded calm, cool and collected and not the raving nut bag that was texting you before should give you and indication that she was pulling on the leash to see if the dog was still there. Time to change your number, dude. 4
Author lumberjac Posted April 23, 2015 Author Posted April 23, 2015 Was speaking to a friend about this and he said this situation is ridiculous. And he hope I won't even think about taking her back if she ever ask to, she's a mess. I replied saying no definitely not, but don't be so harsh? she didn't choose to have the disorders afterall? What would you guys do if you were me? Would you give her a second chance if she ever ask for one? Is mental disorders something that could be rid of? or is it something that would forever stuck in ones body?
lolablue17 Posted April 23, 2015 Posted April 23, 2015 You didn't sc#$ up. You reacted just fine. You are a mature, solid, reliable guy and you showed it to her in your mail. And also you gained some closure for your own interest. You are OK.
LeaveMeAlone Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 Hi guys, I'm back. So me and her broke up nearly three months now, been NC since day one but broke it slightly in mid-february. breadcrumbs now and then but I ignored them all. No message, no text, no contact. Until today when she phoned me three times in the afternoon, then she emailed me saying "Look will you please just talk to me I'm freaking out and I don't know what I'm doing and I'm worried about myself and I'm just all over the palce please I feel sick. I've been on sleeping pills cause I can't sleep. Please please talk to me." You dozey **** ... she's literally screaming out to you hahaha ... You should have said "Hey, it's lovely to hear from you ... how about you bring over a bottle to mine and we can discuss all this over dinner?" Have fun and hook up. Easy. If she declines then say "Alright then, well contact me in a few weeks if you change your mind" then walk away and never turn back. If she contacts you again (which she probably will) ... just do the same thing over ONCE more.
PegNosePete Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 What would you guys do if you were me? Do you really want us to repeat the same thing, over and over and over? We've told you many, many times now but you don't seem to be following it. I'm not sure there's much point telling you again but here goes. Block, block, block. Would you give her a second chance if she ever ask for one? Not if she were the last woman on earth. Is mental disorders something that could be rid of? or is it something that would forever stuck in ones body? Let some other schmuck be the one to find out! 1
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