frankiesaysrelax Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 I went out with my ex for about 5-6 months. We then broke up. We each started seeing other people but quickly both realized we want to be together. I broke it off with the girl I was seeing. She broke it off with the guy she was seeing BUT began ignoring my texts shortly after. When I said WTF I got back "I need you to give me time. If you really care about me as much as you say you do, then you will give me the one thing I need. I told you what I'm going through and I just need you to give me the space and time to gain clarity from the Lord. I'm begging you from the bottom of my heart. Don't be upset and don't take this the wrong way, and don't think it's a rejection. Just believe me, okay?" I replied with "okay" and haven't said anything since (about a week). Is this her way of telling me she regrets breaking up with someone else for me. I take "space" and "time" to be words someone tells you when they want to breakup without being too obvious about it? Should I just give up on this broad or give her some time to come around. Update: P.S. we had both mutually agreed to break up with everyone else so we could be together. We spoke about getting married and all of that and now I feel like I'm in a position where no matter what move i make, it will be the wrong one.
Chi townD Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 (edited) First thought that comes to mind? She chickened out and didn't actually break it off with this other dude. She just told you that she did. I have a feeling they're still seeing each other. That's why she needed space. Hard to explain why, all the sudden she's getting phonecalls and texts from her "Ex". Edited April 22, 2015 by Chi townD 1
Mrin Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 Chi townD may have a point. The other side of the equation is to take her word at face value and just give her time. Honestly, the facts fit that too. It isn't that you guys decided to just give it another try. You guys went from being broken up and dating other people to hey lets get married. That's a pretty big shift. She's could be just sitting with that. Women don't just go into the "let's get married and live happily ever after" easily. We men are like, "screw it let's do it". Women start visualizing what all that means. What they are giving up. Is this the right guy. Is he the One. What did I get myself into. Maybe I shouldn't have said that. How can I go back to him and just say I want to just date. I'm scared. What do my friends say. What does my Lord say. Etc... Which is a round about way of saying you shouldn't have gone there. But no use crying over spilt milk. Give her a reasonable amount of time and don't be surprised if she comes back and says, "can we just date?". 2
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