We broke up, no contact 3 weeks, back together after a month now pregnant

[Remnants]

Okay I'll keep a time line here and deliver it quickly.

Dec 25- both unhappy split up

About three weeks of no contact, started talking, sleeping together.

Officially back together around February 1stish.

We find out she's pregnant, date of conception January 28 put her at ten weeks three days at the time.

I'm just freaking out, I'm excited about the chance of being a father, but damn I never really had anxiety before. I'm just concerned, you know that question "is it for sure mine?"

I know when I asked her if there was anyone else she said there was some flirting and sexting junk but she says that's as far as she let it go. I hope so seeing as the participants was her and our mutual friends man.

She's been pretty open about life in the past, so am I just feeling the "omg I'm going to be a dad!" anxiety or should I get a paternity test? And omg how do I approach that?

I love her, but I love me more.

[Bohonia]

I would ask for a paternity test, if she has nothing to hide and you have a solid relationship there shouldn't be any issue about it as in acting defensive that you asked. Once that is taken care of you can plan your next move. Remember though just because you have a kid together doesn't mean you have to be together. If it is your's embrace the role Good luck