Toodaloo Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 We now have 4 and 5 on the scene... I logged back onto the site again as something is telling me that things with No 2 will be fantastic or a disaster. Got another barrage of messages most asking if I want to suck a 20 yr olds penis or just saying "Hi" so I haven't logged back on since. 1. Has bowed out. occasional friendly messages no more. This is fine. 2. Date on Saturday - I will let you know 3. Did a flaky vanishing act type thing again - if he comes back again I am not going to bother 4. Seems lovely and I have been chatting for past 2 days with him. I like his humour and the way he views the world. He is very easy going and forthright... No date requested nor booked as yet. 5. Also seems lovely - not chatted as much with him but he seems like a really decent bloke... again no date requested/ booked as yet. He may bow out as he is an hour away though. He didn't seem keen on that. So may have just wasted another number... I hope not though as he has a really sexy big nose. Might have to shuffle these about and start reusing some numbers or by this time next year I will be telling you all about no 567, no 568 and no 569... 5
Gaeta Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 keep track of them somewhere! I wish I had lol You'll know when you've met too many when you come across them in town or when you set up a meeting with them and then realize you met them already the previous year lol, 2
BikerAccnt Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 keep track of them somewhere! I wish I had lol When I was OLD'ing, I ended up creating a spreadsheet. I wanted to make sure I didn't contact the same person again if I'd gotten no response. It also came in very handy for cross referencing as I'm sure you've noticed, many people are on more than one site, and often have different user names!
Author Toodaloo Posted April 22, 2015 Author Posted April 22, 2015 When I was OLD'ing, I ended up creating a spreadsheet. I wanted to make sure I didn't contact the same person again if I'd gotten no response. It also came in very handy for cross referencing as I'm sure you've noticed, many people are on more than one site, and often have different user names! Spread sheet here I come! What did you have in the columns User name, real name, like/ dislike, dated, hobbies... 1
elaine567 Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 Spread sheet here I come! What did you have in the columns User name, real name, like/ dislike, dated, hobbies... Big nose/No big nose... 1
Mrin Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 Spread sheet here I come! What did you have in the columns User name, real name, like/ dislike, dated, hobbies... I totally used the spreadsheet back in my multi-dating days. I have a good memory so I didn't need it to track details so much as context. Basically it was: 1. Name 2. Notes: general notes like names of family members, any special details (vegan, allergic to peanuts, etc) 3. Ex relationship details: this was an important one as you can really screw up referencing a divorce with someone who hasn't been married. 4. Next Step 5. Questions and Impressions: this was actually the most important. I would jot down impressions shortly after a date or a substantive interaction (e.g. long phone call). I'd also jot down any questions or things I wanted to find out more about. Women would go onto the spreadsheet as soon as we were texting or calling. #5 became really the most critical. The rest were just to keep me out of trouble. #5 was important because, at least with me, I kinda got in a kind in a candy store mentality. The last woman I went out with would get more of my attention and time - assuming we had a good date. So this was really helpful. Multi-dating and meeting women was easy for me so I really needed a list to keep everything straight. All that being said, as soon as I had my second date with my GF, I knew that compared to her everyone else didn't matter. So after my second date I waved off everyone on the list and retired my spreadsheet - hopefully for good.
preraph Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 Why don't you get your work buddies to set you up on dates?
Author Toodaloo Posted April 23, 2015 Author Posted April 23, 2015 Why don't you get your work buddies to set you up on dates? preraph... they set the pass word on my computer to my boobs... the other lot are either fast approaching or past retirement... lol To be honest they have thought about it and gone through their phone books... Most are already married or complete a holes that they knew would treat me badly so they scrapped that idea... My brother also went through his work and home contacts same thing. The only one he came up with who was a half decent chap and single is also a drug addict who is in and out of rehab and way too much drama... One did try to set me up with one of our customers who absolutely adores me then scrapped that idea when they found out he has a girlfriend!
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