Chuck636333 Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 I went out with a girl this past weekend,we had a great time and she was already trying to make plans for this coming up weekend the next day. We don't talk a whole whole lot through text but at least toss around a few messages daily. Haven't had any messages today and I don't want to seem overly interested or needy...what can I text her to tell her she's on my mind today,something to make her smile.
Mrin Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 Find a video or an article she might like. Then send the link to her with a note of "saw this and thought of you"
fitnessfan365 Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 Find a video or an article she might like. Then send the link to her with a note of "saw this and thought of you" Haha.. I do this all the time. One woman I went out with told me on the phone that only one other guy besides me ever called her to make plans. Then she said he was so bad on the phone, that they didn't end up getting together. So I found the clip from Swingers where Mikey keeps calling Nikki's answering machine when he gets cut off. Said "Does this bad phone game bring back memories?" She loved it.
Mjm1014 Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 (edited) Depends how long you were dating, if it's only been one date, I would refrain...been there, done that (many times), and it usually backfires in your face even when you're feeling a good vibe from her. A simple, "I'm excited to see you" will suffice. Anything more than that you risk her running for the hills because you're coming off clingy. Last relationship failed because I got amazing vibes from a girl, had a few awesome dates together and she was really into me. I couldn't contain myself and texted her one night telling her I really liked her and how she makes me happy...well she immediately started to pull back-two months later (the last time I ever saw her), she told me she wanted to end it because things were getting too serious, and SHE POINTED OUT THAT FIRST TEXT TO HER A MONTH PRIOR and told me basically it came off clingy and from there on out the spark was gone. She apologized but said she couldn't help her feelings..Like I said we dated a month or so after that text was sent and I couldn't recover from that...it killed her attraction for me almost right away and the relationship took a slow nosedive after that. She ended it that night and our relationship is history. I messed up one or two other things which is besides the point. Just don't get carried away and be very careful esp early on. Good luck op. Edited April 22, 2015 by Mjm1014
ManyDissapoint Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 Depends how long you were dating, if it's only been one date, I would refrain...been there, done that (many times), and it usually backfires in your face even when you're feeling a good vibe from her. A simple, "I'm excited to see you" will suffice. Anything more than that you risk her running for the hills because you're coming off clingy. Last relationship failed because I got amazing vibes from a girl, had a few awesome dates together and she was really into me. I couldn't contain myself and texted her one night telling her I really liked her and how she makes me happy...well she immediately started to pull back-two months later (the last time I ever saw her), she told me she wanted to end it because things were getting too serious, and SHE POINTED OUT THAT FIRST TEXT TO HER A MONTH PRIOR and told me basically it came off clingy and from there on out the spark was gone. She apologized but said she couldn't help her feelings..Like I said we dated a month or so after that text was sent and I couldn't recover from that...it killed her attraction for me almost right away and the relationship took a slow nosedive after that. She ended it that night and our relationship is history. I messed up one or two other things which is besides the point. Just don't get carried away and be very careful esp early on. Good luck op. On the one hand this is an obvious freshman mistake but on the other hand it illustrates just how messed up people are. Wanna know how I got these scars?
Gaeta Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 Depends how long you were dating, if it's only been one date, I would refrain...been there, done that (many times), and it usually backfires in your face even when you're feeling a good vibe from her. A simple, "I'm excited to see you" will suffice. Anything more than that you risk her running for the hills because you're coming off clingy. Last relationship failed because I got amazing vibes from a girl, had a few awesome dates together and she was really into me. I couldn't contain myself and texted her one night telling her I really liked her and how she makes me happy...well she immediately started to pull back-two months later (the last time I ever saw her), she told me she wanted to end it because things were getting too serious, and SHE POINTED OUT THAT FIRST TEXT TO HER A MONTH PRIOR and told me basically it came off clingy and from there on out the spark was gone. She apologized but said she couldn't help her feelings..Like I said we dated a month or so after that text was sent and I couldn't recover from that...it killed her attraction for me almost right away and the relationship took a slow nosedive after that. She ended it that night and our relationship is history. I messed up one or two other things which is besides the point. Just don't get carried away and be very careful esp early on. Good luck op. I am sorry this happened to you but the real reason is she was not into you from the beginning. When both people are in each other nothing like that will make them change their mind about you. My last boyfriend wanted to be exclusive after our 3rd date, I was ecstatic, the man I am currently dating told me after our 1st date I fascinated him and I didn't run anywhere because I am into him. I ran away from a man plenty of time after he showed too much interest, it was simply because I was not that much into him. OP: You don't need to tell her anything, just contact her, why don't you?
d0nnivain Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 We don't talk a whole whole lot through text but at least toss around a few messages daily. If you are already communicating multiple times per day after only one date why are you putting so much pressure on this message?
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