rov Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 Hi, I added a girl through Facebook one month ago and we've been talking since a month ago. She contacted me almost daily and talked long hours, we even talked on Skype 4 times. She is in Europe since february but will return to Mexico in a week. She is a doctor and told me that when she returns to Mexico we will see each other till January 2016 because she is very busy with her career, I think she told me this as a joke. But then she told me that we could meet in person till August this year because she has to make her medical service when she arrives. On Sunday when we skyped she told me that she is hurt because she broke up 3 months ago from a 3 year relationship, her boyfriend is also a doctor and dumped her because he had to go to make his service to another state. She told me that he put his career first instead of her. Then she told me she need time to be alone to heal and to avoid hurting the next person in her romantic life. Since then we have not spoke anymore, she hasn't contacted me anymore, and today I sent her a text saying good night and she didn't respond anything. Any opinion on this?. I think I should leave her alone to avoid being a rebound. She also told me she would go to Spain study her speciality in two years 1
Author rov Posted April 24, 2015 Author Posted April 24, 2015 Updates, she answered my text the next day and said: Oh sorry I have disappeared this days, I have been very busy. Have a nice day. She sent that text on wednesday and since then I have not heard from hear. I do not plan to contact her. But whats the deal here?, she talked to me almost daily for one month and suddenly she ceases contact. Girls that broke up recently from relationships like this one that broke up 3 months ago act hot and cold like this?, how do you handle this?
Redhead14 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 Updates, she answered my text the next day and said: Oh sorry I have disappeared this days, I have been very busy. Have a nice day. She sent that text on wednesday and since then I have not heard from hear. I do not plan to contact her. But whats the deal here?, she talked to me almost daily for one month and suddenly she ceases contact. Girls that broke up recently from relationships like this one that broke up 3 months ago act hot and cold like this?, how do you handle this? It doesn't matter what she's thinking. I don't think she's thinking at all. At best, she's a poor communicator. Don't waste another minute thinking about it. 2
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 It doesn't matter what she's thinking OP, because she is unavailable. Don't waste your time with her, instead seek people that you can ask out tomorrow for a date next week, not in a year. 2
Author rov Posted April 24, 2015 Author Posted April 24, 2015 It doesn't matter what she's thinking OP, because she is unavailable. Don't waste your time with her, instead seek people that you can ask out tomorrow for a date next week, not in a year. Are girls like this that broke up from longterm relationships 3 months ago a real risk?. How much time do they need to heal, I don't want to be a rebound :s. Best thing is to let her go?
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 Are girls like this that broke up from longterm relationships 3 months ago a real risk?. How much time do they need to heal, I don't want to be a rebound :s. Best thing is to let her go? You don't even HAVE a relationship with her since you haven't met her. She's unavailable until 2016, so who cares??? Move on. 4
smackie9 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 Hi, I added a girl through Facebook one month ago and we've been talking since a month ago. She contacted me almost daily and talked long hours, we even talked on Skype 4 times. She is in Europe since february but will return to Mexico in a week. She is a doctor and told me that when she returns to Mexico we will see each other till January 2016 because she is very busy with her career, I think she told me this as a joke. But then she told me that we could meet in person till August this year because she has to make her medical service when she arrives. On Sunday when we skyped she told me that she is hurt because she broke up 3 months ago from a 3 year relationship, her boyfriend is also a doctor and dumped her because he had to go to make his service to another state. She told me that he put his career first instead of her. Then she told me she need time to be alone to heal and to avoid hurting the next person in her romantic life. Since then we have not spoke anymore, she hasn't contacted me anymore, and today I sent her a text saying good night and she didn't respond anything. Any opinion on this?. I think I should leave her alone to avoid being a rebound. She also told me she would go to Spain study her speciality in two years She just dumped you.....move on.
smackie9 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 When they give you all these excuses it's their way of letting you down easy.
Gary S Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 If you can't meet within a couple weeks tops, you may be wasting time. Additionally, she could be a scammer. Online relationships are not real. We are strangers until we meet. How can you kiss her if she's not with you? If you aren't kissing, you're just wishing.
Author rov Posted April 24, 2015 Author Posted April 24, 2015 When they give you all these excuses it's their way of letting you down easy. But why she did all this if everything was all right?. I never acted clingy or needy.
Author rov Posted April 24, 2015 Author Posted April 24, 2015 If you can't meet within a couple weeks tops, you may be wasting time. Additionally, she could be a scammer. Online relationships are not real. We are strangers until we meet. How can you kiss her if she's not with you? If you aren't kissing, you're just wishing. Your are right, she sent mixed signals all the time. She arrives from her trip in May but she told me that she would be very busy when she arrives and that we would meet in person till August, and then she even joked that we would meet till January 2016. So maybe she just wanted to jerk me around. I want to avoid the drama of being with an emotionally unavailable girl like this one that broke 3 months ago from a 3 year relationship. Ill thank her from saving me from all that drama
Author rov Posted April 24, 2015 Author Posted April 24, 2015 Should I delete her from my Skype and Facebook?
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 Should I delete her from my Skype and Facebook? yes. ten letters
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