imtrying211 Posted April 21, 2015 Posted April 21, 2015 Yes, I broke NC after only 3 days. Of course as soon as I hit send I regretted it. A coworker told me that my ex was having some kind of major tooth issue; pain, swollen face, may be going to the ER. I have to admit at first I was like haha, karma is a b*tch, and now you're feeling pain too. Then my heart took over and I was feeling bad for him. So I text him, just kind of checking in, see how he was doing. No response as of yet and I feel like an idiot. I just couldn't help it, I care, even if he doesn't. Should I just forget about it and completely ignore his existence? Is making contact ever really OK?
Twigyy Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 You should stop having your coworker feed you news. If he didn't reply your texts it means that he doesn't want you to know anything and doesn't want to contact you. You might feel a little better by sending him a text, but you won't after a while. Remember how much it hurts to contact him, and don't do it again. Cheers. 1
Satu Posted April 22, 2015 Posted April 22, 2015 *No direct contact in either direction. No sending or receiving of messages. No replies. Block any means he might use to contact you. *No indirect contact through third parties. *De-friend or delete from all social media. No monitoring of him on social media. *No 'little birds' feeding you news. *Tell people that you don't want to know anything about what he is doing or saying. Go forth and prosper.
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