nasc88 Posted April 21, 2015 Posted April 21, 2015 Hi all: I dated what I thought was a nice guy for almost two years. Sadly it's been over a year and I still can't stop thinking about him. He broke up with me as he "needed time and space." The whole break up was confusing. I dated a guy last summer who really opened my eyes to how great a relationship could be but we ended up breaking up. I keep going back to the ex. I look at his Facebook profile even though we're not friends. I look at his Match.com profile just to see if he's active. I look at the couple we used to spend time with and they've moved in together and I'm completely jealous. I am fully aware that what I am doing is completely insane and unhealthy but I just can't stop. How do you get your heart to understand it's over and he's not changing his mind? Thanks everyone - I'm really struggling with this.
Fufu Posted April 21, 2015 Posted April 21, 2015 Hi all: I dated what I thought was a nice guy for almost two years. Sadly it's been over a year and I still can't stop thinking about him. He broke up with me as he "needed time and space." The whole break up was confusing. I dated a guy last summer who really opened my eyes to how great a relationship could be but we ended up breaking up. I keep going back to the ex. I look at his Facebook profile even though we're not friends. I look at his Match.com profile just to see if he's active. I look at the couple we used to spend time with and they've moved in together and I'm completely jealous. I am fully aware that what I am doing is completely insane and unhealthy but I just can't stop. How do you get your heart to understand it's over and he's not changing his mind? Thanks everyone - I'm really struggling with this. I think the all about needed time and space was just a nicer cover up excuse of telling you "I'm seriously over you." The first thing you need to do is to delete his profile and blocked him from your facebook. Looking at his profile won't help you moving on because you will be thinking about him and having delusions of being with him again. Why do this cruel cruel thing to yourself? You should start living your own life and don't get yourself stuck in the past.
dangerbang Posted April 21, 2015 Posted April 21, 2015 You have to just never look at his stuff again. If you don't have the strength to do that well you could be upset for a very long time. You can't be that weak surely. It will sink in if you try and live your life and improve yourself and focus on yourself, and the others who are still in your life. Make your life worth living because harbouring regret and all these feelings is only wasting valuable existence. Get busy living or get busy dying, etc.
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