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I noticed recently in facebook that she made our photo together (which was 2 months ago) to Public View. It wasn't for public view initially. And it is the only photo she made to public view. I'm guessing she's trying to make her ex jealous. Is my gut feeling correct?

 

I think he is trying to make her ex jealous 'cause her ex is in my friends list too. The ex posted a pic of him topless and it was made public (one of his few photos that was made to public view). After a short while, my gf made our photo public as well (coincidence?). Oh and my girlfriend and her ex are not friends on facebook.

 

And if your gf is trying to make her ex jealous, does it mean she's not a keeper? Man, I'm planning on dumping her. I feel being used.

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I noticed recently in facebook that she made our photo together (which was 2 months ago) to Public View. It wasn't for public view initially. And it is the only photo she made to public view. I'm guessing she's trying to make her ex jealous. Is my gut feeling correct?

 

I think he is trying to make her ex jealous 'cause her ex is in my friends list too. The ex posted a pic of him topless and it was made public (one of his few photos that was made to public view). After a short while, my gf made our photo public as well (coincidence?). Oh and my girlfriend and her ex are not friends on facebook.

 

And if your gf is trying to make her ex jealous, does it mean she's not a keeper? Man, I'm planning on dumping her. I feel being used.

 

Your girlfriend and her ex are not friends on FB. She posted a picture of you two together and made it public (or forgot to change the posting mode). I don't think it's about making boyfriend jealous based on this information.

 

Do you have any other reason to make your "gut" suspect this? If things are otherwise good between you and she doesn't mention the ex while you two are together, I'd leave it alone.

 

If you have other reasons to suspect anything, then open a non-confrontational conversation with her to find out if she is happy with your relationship and/or if she is still pining away for the ex. How long ago did they break up?

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They broke up almost 2 years ago. Na, my gut feeling tells me this because I think she stalked her ex, then gf found his recent topless pic. And then gf made our photos together suddenly public.

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They broke up almost 2 years ago. Na, my gut feeling tells me this because I think she stalked her ex, then gf found his recent topless pic. And then gf made our photos together suddenly public.

 

 

My goodness, two years ago? and this kind of thing is still going on? That is a sign of immaturity at best. Move on.

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What I'm more curious about is how you know the ex boy friend has this photo public? Are you stalking his Facebook page?

 

Further more how do you know that your current girl friend recently made the picture public? Are you stalking her page as well?

 

I will give you that is slightly suspicious but only because of the timeline involved.

 

What concerns me most is that you are gathering this information. Why are you gathering this information? This is not stuff you just happen to stumble across. Unless you are friends on Facebook with her ex.

 

What concerns me the most is your complete and utter lack of trust in your girl friend. If she is stalking his Facebook page and doing this to make him jealous it's fairly immature. But you're not far behind her in the immaturity department.

 

How savvy are you on a computer or phone? If you have access to her phone or computer you can easily bring up past pages visited and past searches. This will give you more information. But right now you don't have much of a case against it. Even if you do bust her trying to make her ex jealous what are you going too do about it?

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They broke up almost 2 years ago. Na, my gut feeling tells me this because I think she stalked her ex, then gf found his recent topless pic. And then gf made our photos together suddenly public.

 

Chill.

 

This should not be a problem.

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A perfect example of how Facebook can wreck a relationship over absolutely nothing.

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A perfect example of how FaceBook gets blamed for ruining relationships when there are obviously existing problems.

 

She's trying to make an ex jealous that she was with over 2 years ago?

 

She's got issues.

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A perfect example of how FaceBook gets blamed for ruining relationships when there are obviously existing problems.

 

She's trying to make an ex jealous that she was with over 2 years ago?

 

She's got issues.

 

Wanting to goad an ex isn't the same as wanting to be with them. Living well is the best revenge, and I think most everyone subscribes to that. I doubt it had anything to do with why she posted their photo though.

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