Alan_17 Posted April 21, 2015 Posted April 21, 2015 After 2 months of no contact im still in so much pain, she left me for another guy and moved in with him.... i dont even know what to do
Fufu Posted April 21, 2015 Posted April 21, 2015 Think of how you have established 2 months of NC, that's an achievement. You don't have to do anything. Just focus on own your recovery.
Chi townD Posted April 21, 2015 Posted April 21, 2015 After 2 months of no contact im still in so much pain, she left me for another guy and moved in with him.... i dont even know what to do That' your problem. You're not doing enough. You need to start making positive changes in your life. You need to set yourself up with goals and achieve them. The key is to keep really busy! Get a new hairstyle and new clothes. Being styling 24/7. You want people to say, "Damn Dude! Looking sharp!" That's going to be nice to hear and will help with your self confidence. Then, go to the gym. Run your ass off on the treadmill and push weight. If you eat right and get plenty of sleep, you'll be work towards that rock hard and ripped bod that girls are definitely like! Plus, you'll be burning off all this stress and frustrations you're having. Three things girls love to touch. Kittens, puppies and six pack abs. Then, get new hobbies. Join some clubs. Like a running club or cycling club. Or a men's soccer league or dive lessons. Get out and meet new people! Make new friendships!!! Then, travel! Go see something new and takes you away from things that are going to remind you of your Ex. There's a big world outside your door with different people and from different cultures....go meet them! Have an adventure! Think of a place that you've always wanted to see. Make a plan save some money and GO!!!!! 2 months is nothing and is a drop in the bucket. You're in mourning. But, if you start making positive changes in your life, you're going to heal faster. The key is to KEEP BUSY!!!!!
sowhynot Posted April 21, 2015 Posted April 21, 2015 Agreed. do something, anything. I'm 'only' on Day 3 but i'm clearing out the garage, boxing stuff up. Yeh, I don't feel like doing it one little bit - BUT - it is better than sitting around, letting the memories of the relationship gnaw away at you. If you need to vent, talk etc - this is what this forum is for !
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