whitelakeguy Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 I met a girl on a dating site. I am 44. She is 32...successful...3 kids...and very sexual and fun. 5 months in her boyfriend calls me asking if i am dating her. He has been with her 2 years and 5 months at this point. He found her at my house when she told him she was out of town. She has been lying to me and sleeping with both of us...some days me right after him...the entire time. Her bf had no idea she was doing this until now. I confronted her. She swears to cut off all contact with him. Should I dump her or give her a chance? I am 44...divorced 2 years from a woman who cheated on me. I have an 8 yo daughter. She has three kids 5 7 and 9. She wants marriage sooner than later. She is great in bed and wants sex all the time. She also cheated on her husband of 12 years for 2 straight years with 5 different guys including her friends husband.
Jessie1231 Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 Oh my goodness no do not give her another chance! The same thing sort of happened to me, except that I was only a month in when I found the guy I was dating had a long term girlfriend. I got rid of him without hesitation. Can you imagine the feelings you would have when she was dating you and had to "go out of town" for work? How could you ever trust her?
Smokeshow Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 I think you know the answer but if not here's a line from a well known movie that may help you out with your decision "Run Forest run!"
I_Give_Up67 Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 I met a girl on a dating site. I am 44. She is 32...successful...3 kids...and very sexual and fun. 5 months in her boyfriend calls me asking if i am dating her. He has been with her 2 years and 5 months at this point. He found her at my house when she told him she was out of town. She has been lying to me and sleeping with both of us...some days me right after him...the entire time. Her bf had no idea she was doing this until now. I confronted her. She swears to cut off all contact with him. Should I dump her or give her a chance? I am 44...divorced 2 years from a woman who cheated on me. I have an 8 yo daughter. She has three kids 5 7 and 9. She wants marriage sooner than later. She is great in bed and wants sex all the time. She also cheated on her husband of 12 years for 2 straight years with 5 different guys including her friends husband. WUT??? Dude, the sex may be awesome, but she is a serial cheater. She has already been cheating on you! Is she really worth exposing yourself to STDs' and the continued betrayal? You can do better than this one my friend.
Friskyone4u Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 White lake If you can accept an open marriage by all means stay and enjoy all the great sex. But just remember it is highly unlikely you will be the only man getting it. On the other hand , if you want a monogamous marriage and a faithful spouse , I'd suggest going back on the dating site and start fishing again because this one is damaged and needs to be thrown back on the pond
Fufu Posted April 21, 2015 Posted April 21, 2015 I met a girl on a dating site. I am 44. She is 32...successful...3 kids...and very sexual and fun. 5 months in her boyfriend calls me asking if i am dating her. He has been with her 2 years and 5 months at this point. He found her at my house when she told him she was out of town. She has been lying to me and sleeping with both of us...some days me right after him...the entire time. Her bf had no idea she was doing this until now. I confronted her. She swears to cut off all contact with him. Should I dump her or give her a chance? I am 44...divorced 2 years from a woman who cheated on me. I have an 8 yo daughter. She has three kids 5 7 and 9. She wants marriage sooner than later. She is great in bed and wants sex all the time. She also cheated on her husband of 12 years for 2 straight years with 5 different guys including her friends husband. Well, do you want a gf or a woman who is great in bed? Make your choice
Chi townD Posted April 21, 2015 Posted April 21, 2015 (edited) The girl has a track record of being a serial cheater and she hasn't grown up yet. I would take that as a sign to move on. It's not worth the heartache. Not only for you, but your daughter before she get anymore invested into this woman. Edited April 21, 2015 by Chi townD
WomenWubber Posted April 21, 2015 Posted April 21, 2015 Sure, give her a chance to infect you with AIDS.
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