zin Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 Hi, not an English speakng fella, so I will hope u will understand My story then - We were together for almost three years, first 3 months dating, then a year for a long distant relationship and then 1,5 years lived together... Everything was more or less okay, of coure there were acouple of fights now and than,but it happens to everyone, we did break up for 3 times, but it was only for 1-2 days and everything was back to normal... All off a sudden I noticed that she is texting all the time with her co-worker, witch she replied that they ar only friends (classic), i did not tell her anything at first, because I trusted her... She was going to have a some kind of a work celebration and she asked me to come, I said no,because I had to work that day, she was quite sad about it, but she went anyway... She was home only the next morning, drunk, and did not speak to me, after two days - BOOM,she wants to break up, as she wants to be single and does not feel safe about the future with me, as a "real man" i begged and pursuited her, but it was useless. for the next week we lived together, but in seperrate rooms, and after that week we went on a trip to another country together with her and her sister and my friend,because the tickets were booked long ago, the first day was f**ked up, and ont he second she got drunk and we had sex, than she started to cry and said, that she kissed that guy at the party and wants to be with him, because he makes her feel like a queen. I was devestated, but calm, after two days we flew home and continued to live together for a week, we had sex acouple of times,made dinner for each other, but still, every minute she was texting that guy. I could no longer take it and moved out and the next day I met a girl at a club, who latter added me to Facebook, my ex suddenly started to text me - who is that girl and so on, I told her,that i met her at a club, ex was silent for a day then, then she texted, that she misses talking with me and wants to meet in two weeks,which I aggreed. Then for some kind of stupid reasons I started to see the other girl and had sex with her, soon my ex found that out and was screaming like hell, that she thought that Iwas mourning about her not fuc*ing other girls and went silent again, after a week she wrote that I was a big liear that I do not love her, but only the feeling being in love and that she had read a conversation between her sister and me, where I was calling my ex bad names soshe now knows that she did the right choice leaving me... wished me well in my life and that there is no chance on her anymore... So yeah, here is the interesting part - the last two months we are still communicating (I am very good friends with her sister, that is one reason, so I visit their flat once in a while and the other is that once every two three days she writes me or i write her something or we meet in person) a week ago she asked me to do a favor and it was not a small one,today I finaly finished the favour,we met, Igaveall she needed and asked me what do I want, I said nothing, after a while I texted,thatfor return Iwant to have dinner with her, witch she replied - Ok, but do not put any hopes on me, I will not change my mind So yeah,it seems the situation is hopelees, isn't it?
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