hl222 Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 Hi, I'm new to this forum.. was wondering if I could get some advice. Recently my gf and I got into an argument and we ended up saying some nasty things to each other. A few days ago, I was caught off guard as she wanted to meet in person and basically started crying and wanted to "downgrade" our relationship to just "dating." A few hours later, she was acting happy again, and I thought things were okay... maybe it was just a big argument. When I drove home from her place late at night, I was surprised to notice that she unfriended me and blocked me from several sites like Facebook. At that moment, I felt like I was just dumped. She also sent me a text message with a question after I got home, but I didn't respond yet after finding out she unfriended me and it's been 3 days with no contact. I'm considering to continue the no-contact strategy. What should I do next? Any thoughts?
mightycpa Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 Well, it might depend upon the question you ignored, but I'd say you've been dumped. What do you do now? You try to figure out what caused you to be so nasty to someone you wanted to be your GF. Chances are that whatever it was, it still makes you mad, and you will want to use that to help you get used to the idea that maybe this is a good thing. If you have stuff to exchange, then box it up, and have a pal drop it off. If she has your stuff too, drop a note in asking for it back, and maybe with instructions on who to give it to. Then, take a lesson learned and welcome to the club.
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