simon_uk Posted April 18, 2005 Posted April 18, 2005 I am beginning to think that NC only works for you folks in America! bizarre though it seems, wehn I go through these threads on here and other message boards it would appear that anybody getting any kind of contact from their ex is from the USA. Wonder why that is?
ReluctantRomeo Posted April 18, 2005 Posted April 18, 2005 No it works in Europe too sometimes... the link with the local presence of a Taco Bell is as yet unproven Actually, I think the real point of NC is to get your head together. This may or may not help in getting your ex back.
dibdab Posted April 18, 2005 Posted April 18, 2005 Simon, i'm sure no contact will work for you. It is meant to do 1 of 2 things either they will come back to you and failing that, it will help you to get over your ex and move on. I am using it to get over my ex, right now it has been 5 days straight that i haven't spoken to her, although we broke up 6 weeks ago. I wasted my time trying to get her back but now i relise i should have just started no contact straight away and i would have been 6 weeks ahead in trying to heal my broken heart. Hang in there simon and just try and concentrating on moving forward.
Author simon_uk Posted April 18, 2005 Author Posted April 18, 2005 Yes I know you are right and of course my post was a joke. I have had NC for about two weeks now, split for four or five, cant remember. I dropped a letter off for her at her mums last thurs, heard nothing so I am just guessing she really deosnt love me. So I have to use NC to get over her now. It is her 30th on Thursday though, not sure whether to send her a card or not? Simon
ReluctantRomeo Posted April 18, 2005 Posted April 18, 2005 Originally posted by simon_uk It is her 30th on Thursday though, not sure whether to send her a card or not? If she is not replying to your other communications, no. Sorry. If you hadn't sent the letter via her mum, I'd probably have said yes, since a one-off for a special occasion is ok. But not 2 - you'll be irritating her and making yourself look weak, desperate and clingy.
Dorkette Posted April 18, 2005 Posted April 18, 2005 Originally posted by simon_uk Yes I know you are right and of course my post was a joke. I have had NC for about two weeks now, split for four or five, cant remember. I dropped a letter off for her at her mums last thurs, heard nothing so I am just guessing she really deosnt love me. So I have to use NC to get over her now. It is her 30th on Thursday though, not sure whether to send her a card or not? Simon If she didn't reply to your letter, don't even bother. Good luck and don't worry everything will turn out the best for you in the end.
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