SAU Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 Hi everyone, thanks for taking the time to read this. I dated my ex on and off for about 6 years. During that time I'd get hit on by various women. She didn't like it and after the last couple of times she decided to break up with me said we should be friends and if it's meant to be then it'll happen. I wrote her a message saying that I don't want to be friends and wished her well. That was about three months ago. Since then I didn't contact her for about two months, recently at the start of this month we would bump into each other, during these encounters I'd wave and smile and be nice as possible. Sometimes I'll ask for help with various things and during the times she has helped me we cheerfully talked about topics unrelated to the relationship. Our mutual friends say it's a good sign, but I remember how hurt and upset she was, and knowing how much of a beautiful person she is there's possibly another/other guy/s in the picture. I realized that I can be a bit flirty and I understand why she was turned off by my behavior. I've been working on how I talk to people (women especially) so in the future it doesn't happen again. I really love my ex I've never cheated on her and I do want to work things out. I'm just lost as how to go about it.
Ruby65 Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 I'm sure she brought this up many times during the six years you were together. You had time to change your behavior but chose not to. I don't see how there's a way back as it sounds like she's finally had enough of your inappropriate behavior.
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