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Her silence tells him everything he needs to know.

 

Yep she's a spineless wimp who can't stand confrontation

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Yep she's a spineless wimp who can't stand confrontation

 

Dude........

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i know she loves me. she is 22 and i 28.

 

She's been ignoring you for 4 months. That is not the behavior of someone in love.

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Basic rule of love.

 

If a person really loves you, he/she won't leave you.

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Yep she's a spineless wimp who can't stand confrontation

 

She told him everything she needed to in the break-up email. She owes him nothing more. His actions have been disrespectful and further justify her silence. Why should she respect his wishes when he clearly hasn't respected hers?

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I'm sorry but you have to let her go, you should have let her go a long time ago. She's initiated NC and you must respect that and do the same. Cut all contact with her, I'm sorry but it's over. She's clearly made her mind up, she's chosen to move forward without you so you should do the same. If she ever decides to get back with you, then she'll reach out, nothing you say or do will make a difference after 4 months of a break up. Forget her, move on and if she ever decides that she made a mistake then she'll contact you. But don't hold your breath, don't put your life on hold just to wait for a response from her because she's made her mind up. Hope is a very dangerous thing, it can drive you into the ground if you let it control your life. It's been a long time, she's already moved on. I'm truly sorry, I know how hard it is.

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i have been emailing, texting, and calling, over the past 4 months, and still have received no responses. no birthday wishes. nothing. vanished. why isn't she being mature and reiterating that we both need to move on.

 

You sound needy/clingy. She broke up with you because you were cruel. Why would anyone continue to talk to someone who was cruel to them?

 

She IS being mature. She is ignoring your attempts at contact because she doesn't want to talk to you. She's done with you, and has probably already moved on.

 

You now need to move on.

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