Sunnylover21 Posted April 19, 2015 Posted April 19, 2015 Hello! So I posted on here quiet a lot about 6 months back when I was going through a messy breakup with my ex of 5 years. I have been doing so much better, so thank you to everybody on here for helping me! My ex stopped talking to properly and trying to get me back about 6 weeks ago, and tbh I was very relieved. He got a new gf 5 weeks ago and I genuinely wasn't upset at all (yay!!), but the past few days my ex and his family have been on my mind quiet a lot. I'm confused as to why, but I think it has something to do with him seeing to coincidently post things of social media straight after me, things that he would see as showing him to be more successful. I'm talking about pictures of luxury good, his new gf etc. He has now started liking my post whilst still posting things about his new gf - which is quiet strange! I haven't been upset by the images, and I'm not thinking about him in a way that would suggest I want to be back together. I'm just looking for some advice as to whether this is normal thinking, even after the break up? Thank you!! (I have deleted all his social media accounts as of this afternoon to see if this stops him popping up in my thoughts!)
SLee Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 I think it's normal. Nothing to be ashamed of. My break up is a lot more recent, so I can't really speak from experience at this point. Just to me this seems normal. But you're thinking is all the right way so that's awesome! You're making the right calls everywhere. Good for you! Keep on keeping on. You're bound to have good and bad days. Eventually the good will outnumber the bad and the bad will be zero.
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