CurlyIam Posted April 17, 2005 Posted April 17, 2005 When is it ok to ask for more? I think a lot about my past relationship. We were together for more than a year, but basically he would never actually commit. That's why I liked him in the first place, before him I was with a guy who was all about relationships. But the chemistry was great and I fell for it. I think he did too. I left because he made me feel insecure and I hated that. He was alos selfish, but he did have some strong good points. Like the fact that he loved me and that I loved him. Is it too soon to ask your bf to ... I don't know, not necessarily move in with you, but for more? HE lives 2 hours away from Paris and I've told him to get his own place because losing 4 hours back and forth each day will get to him. He didn't. What he did instead is trashing his car because he fell asleep while driving. I'm ... I don't know... maybe I wanted too much too soon. I mean it's over anyway, I don't know why I'm thinking about that anyway.
Sckott Posted April 17, 2005 Posted April 17, 2005 Bad timing. And it doesn't seem like he was ready for commitment. I think you were both supposed to learn what you did from each other and then nothing ever came of it. Relationships are strange that way. I think the easiest way to bring it up is ask him/her what makes a relationship evolve into something more serious. It's a very touchy thing for most anyone. Both people have to be in LOVE and READY. "Xept I'm sure things wouldn't have worked out. Don't regret it. Just move on.
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