Mrpark Posted April 17, 2015 Posted April 17, 2015 Hey so I dated this girl for about 3 months it was a little rocky in the beginning I wasn't super interested then I broke it off with her because I was still in love with my ex. I understand how unfair that was and really wanted to start dating her and lose complete contact with my ex until we can establish a friendship. Anyway the girl I dated dropped me without any closure, she mentioned "we should talk sometime" and I told her best of luck, this obviously isn't working out. I did that because I was also very hurt. So It's been 5 weeks no contact and I messaged her yesterday and wanted to know how she was doing. She didn't respond and of course it hurts a little. I mean honestly im proud that I don't hold any anger and i moved on from being upset but I did think I mattered to her. She did tell me she isn't very emotional and gets over people quickly. Unfortunately I don't so much. I just want to believe I did the right thing by just saying hi and no hard feelings even though she doesn't care. What do you think?
Ruby65 Posted April 17, 2015 Posted April 17, 2015 Who broke up with who? It sounds like you broke up with her because you realized you didn't have feelings (still in love with your ex)..... but then it also sounds like she broke up with you? If you used her as a rebound to get over your ex and broke up with her, frankly you don't deserve to ever hear from her again. If she's the one who broke up with you five weeks ago, then why are you contacting her? She broke up with you.... let it go. Staying in contact only makes it harder to heal and move forward.
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