zachsack Posted April 16, 2015 Posted April 16, 2015 (edited) On IG yesterday I posted a TBH (to be honest) comment on her pic. Heres how it went. Me: Tbh, your gorg and hilarious but the ___ jokes should stop. (Laughing emoji) Her: Tbh, the _____ jokes will never stop but okay lmao (laughing emoji) I feel like she didn't even acknowledge the fact that I told her she was gorgeous, and basically giving her a big time hint. She shows sure signs that she is interested. I plan on telling her my feelings tomorrow after a mis-understanding when I called her "fam" (abbreviation for family, essentially tossing her in the friend zone without meaning to). But, this is making me have second thoughts. Also, she always IGNORES my texts. On Kik, she leaves me on a solid D every single time! (Meaning she opened the app but not my message.) I called her out on it and she simply told me she didn't know it was me and she hasn't used Kik in a long time. Even though it showed that she opened the app. But in person, she talks alot, doesn't exactly flirt like normal girls do with the gaze and hair twirling. But she talks a lot differently around me than others. Like, she uses different words, and talks faster. Also, when people joke about me and her dating, she never denies it. Also, when I playfully touch her (punch her, put my hand on shoulder, backpack) she would question why I did it. Should I go ahead anyway and tell her my feelings? Is her response a negative one? Here are all the signs she shows me: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/524637-good-way-tell-her-i-like-her Edited April 16, 2015 by zachsack
Buddhist Posted April 16, 2015 Posted April 16, 2015 No her response is not negative. Many women will gloss over a physical compliment like that. We're socialised very heavily to not talk about it, as if doing so makes us horribly vain and terrible people. She is flirting back with you with her comment but you just can't see it because you are focused on what's important to you....her looks. What's important to her is that you recognised her intellect, her jokes. TBH you need to stop relating to people via freaking txt apps. People these days have no idea how to relate to each other because they are too busy with their faces stuck in an app. You should call her on the phone and speak to her with a real voice and ask her out. 1
Author zachsack Posted April 16, 2015 Author Posted April 16, 2015 No her response is not negative. Many women will gloss over a physical compliment like that. We're socialised very heavily to not talk about it, as if doing so makes us horribly vain and terrible people. She is flirting back with you with her comment but you just can't see it because you are focused on what's important to you....her looks. What's important to her is that you recognised her intellect, her jokes. TBH you need to stop relating to people via freaking txt apps. People these days have no idea how to relate to each other because they are too busy with their faces stuck in an app. You should call her on the phone and speak to her with a real voice and ask her out. Lol forgot to mention, or it was in other post. We actually talk face to face like 95% of the time. Thats where I pick up these hints. Can't call, her phone is deactivated.
Author zachsack Posted April 17, 2015 Author Posted April 17, 2015 Lol forgot to mention, or it was in other post. We actually talk face to face like 95% of the time. Thats where I pick up these hints. Can't call, her phone is deactivated.
Buddhist Posted April 17, 2015 Posted April 17, 2015 Then ask her next time you are face to face then. 1
preraph Posted April 17, 2015 Posted April 17, 2015 Jeez, just call her on the phone or talk to her in person. You are only seeing 5 percent of a person texting. 1
Gary S Posted April 17, 2015 Posted April 17, 2015 Gorgeous women have been called gorgeous thousands of times. Don't give them compliments until you are dating and then start slow. They've heard it all before. If you think she's gorgeous, a million other guys will too. I probably would too! 1
Omei Posted April 17, 2015 Posted April 17, 2015 Gorgeous women have been called gorgeous thousands of times. Don't give them compliments until you are dating and then start slow. They've heard it all before. If you think she's gorgeous, a million other guys will too. I probably would too! This right here everytime a guy says im good looking I say "thanks" and continue the convo. Heard it a hundred times He's prob said it a hundred times The only time I feel real fluttery is when someone I really care about says it. Its a nice little ego boost tho 1
RJays7 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 On IG yesterday I posted a TBH (to be honest) comment on her pic. Heres how it went. Me: Tbh, your gorg and hilarious but the ___ jokes should stop. (Laughing emoji) Her: Tbh, the _____ jokes will never stop but okay lmao (laughing emoji) I feel like she didn't even acknowledge the fact that I told her she was gorgeous, and basically giving her a big time hint. She shows sure signs that she is interested. I plan on telling her my feelings tomorrow after a mis-understanding when I called her "fam" (abbreviation for family, essentially tossing her in the friend zone without meaning to). But, this is making me have second thoughts. Also, she always IGNORES my texts. On Kik, she leaves me on a solid D every single time! (Meaning she opened the app but not my message.) I called her out on it and she simply told me she didn't know it was me and she hasn't used Kik in a long time. Even though it showed that she opened the app. But in person, she talks alot, doesn't exactly flirt like normal girls do with the gaze and hair twirling. But she talks a lot differently around me than others. Like, she uses different words, and talks faster. Also, when people joke about me and her dating, she never denies it. Also, when I playfully touch her (punch her, put my hand on shoulder, backpack) she would question why I did it. Should I go ahead anyway and tell her my feelings? Is her response a negative one? Here are all the signs she shows me: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/524637-good-way-tell-her-i-like-her Girls can be really fickle sometimes and send mixed signals. Have you had a conversation that would lead you to believe she likes you? Do you feel like she is a good fit for you? RJays7 1
Satu Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 Try talking to her in English rather than Internet slang. In English you can actually communicate what you're thinking and feeling.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 It's a lukewarm response, borderline negative IMO. I wouldn't take it as a sign that she's into you. Try talking to her in English rather than Internet slang. In English you can actually communicate what you're thinking and feeling. No need to be judgmental, not everyone is the same. This is Instagram and isn't like an E-Mail he is sending her or anything. 1
smackie9 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 omg don't tell her your feelings for her!!! you only do that when you have been in a relationship for awhile. You are inexperienced at this I can see. You need to play it kool around her, and when the time comes ask her out on a date. When you ask a girl out, that is telling them already that you have an interest in them. Telling them you have feelings for them puts them in a very awkward spot and will make her run away from you. I feel she has friend zoned you. If she isn't flirting and quick to respond to you, she isn't interested in you romantically.
smackie9 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 Tip: Just because a girl likes talking to you doesn't mean she wants you.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 omg don't tell her your feelings for her!!! you only do that when you have been in a relationship for awhile. You are inexperienced at this I can see. You need to play it kool around her, and when the time comes ask her out on a date. When you ask a girl out, that is telling them already that you have an interest in them. Telling them you have feelings for them puts them in a very awkward spot and will make her run away from you. I feel she has friend zoned you. If she isn't flirting and quick to respond to you, she isn't interested in you romantically. ^^ Men shouldn't be wearing their feelings on their sleeve, its very effeminate. Of course I guess there are SOME Women out there who like that type, but its not typical in my experience.
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