inbrakeible Posted April 16, 2015 Posted April 16, 2015 Hi All, I was wondering what you guys thought of ice breakers at the gym. I see attractive women all the time, but there is one in particular that has really gotten my attention the in the last week. I haven't said anything to her yet, but I know she has noticed me. I always keep to myself at the gym and it seems she does as well. I am thinking of just being blunt and saying something like "Hey there, I am usually not one to make conversation at the gym, but you're super cute."
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 16, 2015 Posted April 16, 2015 Unless you're really blessed with great looks, I'd avoid approaching at the gym lol. Most Women just get annoyed being approached at the gym, and honestly it's hard to pull off unless you're a natural (in which you wouldn't be asking us )
Diezel Posted April 16, 2015 Posted April 16, 2015 I'd much rather hit on someone at the workplace than at the gym. And I never hit on someone at the workplace.
Author inbrakeible Posted April 16, 2015 Author Posted April 16, 2015 I have a good physique and fairly good looking. It's by no means an ideal situation. But one of my ex girlfriend's I picked up at the gym. I'm in college and I'll likely never see this woman outside of the gym. I'm going to talk to her no matter what, but I am curious to see what people think of being blunt. I am choosing to be blunt because I should have already talked to her by now.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 16, 2015 Posted April 16, 2015 I have a good physique and fairly good looking. It's by no means an ideal situation. But one of my ex girlfriend's I picked up at the gym. I'm in college and I'll likely never see this woman outside of the gym. I'm going to talk to her no matter what, but I am curious to see what people think of being blunt. I am choosing to be blunt because I should have already talked to her by now. You won't get much advice here, most people don't approach at the gym. I guess if I HAD to give you advice though.... Work in an area near a girl and when you're both cooling down between sets chat her up a bit (if she doesn't have headphones on -- don't be that guy) The most important things to remember is Don't interrupt her while she is mid-exerciseDon't interrupt her if she has headphones in
Gary S Posted April 16, 2015 Posted April 16, 2015 One thing you do not want to do is give her compliments. Lots of girls are cute, so what? When you act like you just got out of the Sunny Lane penitentiary and have not seen a woman in ten years, that's when they think you are creepy. Just have a conversation. It all starts with "Hello".
fitnessfan365 Posted April 16, 2015 Posted April 16, 2015 One of my favorite forms of irony : Fit women that resort to online dating because they don't want to be approached at the gym, that turn around and complain about fat guys online. I mean I see dating profiles all the time with fit women saying that they're sick of being written by men who are out of shape. Maybe if they'd be more receptive to meeting men at the gym, they'd find one that's active and into fitness. Just saying...
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