A good way to tell her I like her?

[zachsack]

(READING FIRST PART IS NOT NEEDED BUT RECOMMENDED)

So, I started talking to this girl. And, she seems to latch on pretty quick. She’s always talking to me happily, or jokingly. And she acts so much more different around me than other people.

 

The first day, we were working on a characterization unit in drama, and she would not back off, like literally every 15 minutes she was calling my name. Maybe it was part of her “character” we had to show. But who knows? After class ended, I was walking out and she called me name and said that she knew where I sat at lunch and she was going to join me. Then I asked her to join the lunch line with me and at first, she agreed, and then she went all shy and walked away. When I sat down to eat, she wasn’t there. So I went to a different table (I had to do something) and just ate my lunch there. Then, when lunch ended, she came up to me and asked where I was, and that she wanted to sit by me but I wasn’t there. I told her that I had to do something and I moved. Afterwards, we just walked to class and said bye.

 

The next day, she was all happy to see me, and thats when I noticed she acted a lot differently around me than others. Around other guys, she did not talk, or when she did, it was usually like a short sentence or one word. But when she talks to me, shes always smiling and talking in long sentences, also her “shy” behavior disappears and she becomes a totally different person, like she uses curse words, and jokes around. Like when she asked for a high five, and ended up flicking me off, we laughed it off and she pretended she was all innocent.

 

Today, it was same, we joked and laughed. But, then some other guy that other people think she likes started talking to her. Until one of her friends came over and said “why don’t you leave her alone, shes out of your league”. And then she just started to look at me and blush. And when people asked her if she and the other guy were something, she defiantly said no. Then she asked me “be my bodyguard?”. Apparently, other people heard it and think that me and her were something. This time, she blushed really red and didn’t deny it and just kept smiling and blushing. Then it was time to go to lunch, this time I made it up and sat next to her, which she seem to enjoy. After lunch was over, we just went our ways and said bye.

 

Its pretty obvious that she enjoys my company. And I enjoy hers, but I feel like 3 days of talking isn’t a sufficient amount of time to make that decision. I don’t even have her number yet. What I want to know is, does she likes me? When should I ask her out? How should I do it? She doesn’t seem to be very socially active, or maybe her parents are strict and only allow weekends, I requested to follow her on IG 3 days ago, and she hasn’t answered. But I want to try to get in contact with her so we can stay in touch over Spring Break, which starts Friday.

 

UPDATE

She answered my IG request that day I asked her about it and she told it it was because she was inactive, but later that night, she accepted my request, showing she heard what I said, and went through and did something because of me. Also, I got her Kik info from a cousin, which seems to know everyone as shes in the ”popular crowd” and was happy to help me out. I texted her through Kik later that evening, and she left me on a solid D. (Meaning she opened the app but not my message) essentially ignoring me. I called her out on it playfully, and she did it again. After that I let it go, and didn’t text her until like a week later, simply calling her by her name. This time its was a transparent D, meaning it was delivered and the app was not open(ed)z. When I got back to school, she acted all normal again, speaking to me in a away she doesn’t to others. She literally talks different to me than other guys and her friends. I asked her about Kik, and she said the same thing, she hasn’t used Kik in a while, and then asked me “wait, you know my Kik?, what was yours?” I told her my cousin gave it to me and asked her if she knew her, she said yes. So her answer to the ignorance was she didn’t know it was me, and inactivity. Also, she seems to stalk my IG. She said she saw a picture I posted of a celeb and asked who it was, she seemed mighty interested in who she was (and maybe even how many likes it got). Also, she knew what the post was about (a wcw) It almost sounded like she was calling me out on it. Also, at lunch now, I always go to her table at the last 5-10 minutes. And she’ll insist on coming back to my table with me and my friends. After lunch, we would always walk out together, and other departure was always a simple “bye”. Also, when people see me and her together, they would tease her, and she would just blush and not deny it. But with anybody else she does. Also, when I first started calling her “fam”. She didn’t seem to happy. She reply with “Sure, FAM” kinda vigorously. I don’t think she wanted to be called that by me, but the next day she was fine with it. But started talking a bit less.

Today, we talked as usual, but maybe I annoyed her a bit, as she raised her voice at me. She gave me food () voluntarily and we talked as normal, nothing special. Except at lunch, I noticed her looking at me whenever I looked. I moved to a empty table to see if she would take a hint, she didn’t see me, but I knew she was looking for me, because later I walked towards her and she said “I saw you coming”. I was like “Oh really? I didn’t know you liked to watch me”. Then I went back to the empty table, like 5 seconds later, she came behind me and this happened:

Her: Hey Fam I’m going to sit here.

Me: Really?

Her: No, I’m going to the bathroom.

When she came out, I told her to sit down and she did.

Her: (Jokingly) Im deciding to go back or stay.

Me: definitely stay.

We just talked rest of lunch period. She loves to crack these jokes and they’re always seemed to be directed at me. Whenever I go off on her jokingly, she laughs and says your so funny because your lame. When my friend came over and said to her “I didn’t know you were down for freshman”. She didn’t deny it, she just blushed. And I try to break the comfort zone by playfully punching her, and she would ask “why do you always punch me?”. When we were walking out of lunch, and met up again because I went the same way. She said “Why are you such a stalker?” I don’t know if it was a joke or not. But we just went out way and said see ya.

I’m pretty sure more than likely that shes interested. And I think I may have shown her that she was only a friend by calling her fam. I want to show her thats not the case. I was thinking of posting her as my WCW. I figured that’ll be a good way to tell her that I’m interested. But, I’m afraid that she doesn’t actually have the same feelings. So I want to know if you think we share common feelings for each other.

 

NOTE: Almost all of our conversations are person-person. She isn’t very socially-active it seems. She has strict parents. Also, she doesn’t have a activated phone according to my cousin.

Edited April 16, 2015 by zachsack

[Kaitlin_256]

Me being a girl lol I can tell you she does like you! And the best way to tell her you like her is by being honest. At lunch one day just be like "Hey (insert her name), I like you a lot. And I was wondering if you like me too.". Girls are that hard for real. I don't know if that helps but I hope if did good luck!

Edited April 16, 2015 by Kaitlin_256

[zachsack]

Me being a girl lol I can tell you she does like you! And the best way to tell her you like her is by being honest. At lunch one day just be like "Hey (insert her name), I like you a lot. And I was wondering if you like me too.". Girls are that hard for real. I don't know if that helps but I hope if did good luck!

 

Would I be rushing in too quickly and seem needy?