redwing7 Posted April 16, 2015 Posted April 16, 2015 So, this amazing girl moved in a few houses down from me and we've been talking for about a week now and gone on two extremely successful dates in the process. We've already broken the touch barrier and have kissed on more than a few occasions. She told me she likes me a lot and talks about me being her boyfriend. The problem is I may be acting too much in a friendly manner. I offer to help her with things since she lives down the street and am constantly complimenting her. I talk to her like she's a really good friend. Like I said, we kiss, touch, flirt, make each other laugh, ect. Should a guy and a girl become good friends while sharing major mutual attraction before they become official? Or should they become official first? I'd like to do whatever I can to stay out of that blasted friend zone! (We're 18 by the way.) Thanks!
melissacus Posted April 16, 2015 Posted April 16, 2015 I think what you described sounds like a great foundation for a possible relationship. She is obviously interested in you as more than a friend, otherwise she wouldn't be touching and kissing you. It's more than okay to help a girl out and compliment her often. A guy starts top get friend zoned once he starts to become a doormat and loses his individuality and backbone. Keep doing you, having your own life and boundaries, and enjoying her company and I think all will be well. 1
Gary S Posted April 16, 2015 Posted April 16, 2015 If you two are kissing and touching, you can't be in the freindszone. Relax and enjoy If you're not kissing, you're just wishing!
Author redwing7 Posted April 16, 2015 Author Posted April 16, 2015 I think what you described sounds like a great foundation for a possible relationship. She is obviously interested in you as more than a friend, otherwise she wouldn't be touching and kissing you. It's more than okay to help a girl out and compliment her often. A guy starts top get friend zoned once he starts to become a doormat and loses his individuality and backbone. Keep doing you, having your own life and boundaries, and enjoying her company and I think all will be well. If you two are kissing and touching, you can't be in the freindszone. Relax and enjoy If you're not kissing, you're just wishing! Thanks you two! It helps a lot!
Syberia Posted April 16, 2015 Posted April 16, 2015 There is nothing wrong with becoming good friends and lovers at the same time. It can be the basis for a long, fulfilling relationship. If she was not attracted to you, things would be different. 1
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