LoLWut Posted April 15, 2015 Posted April 15, 2015 I met this girl from Japan where i live... super cute, totally my type. I'm also a Japan freak myself and am in the process of emigrating there. I will be going there real soon like less than a year, so i'm not really looking to start a R/S anytime soon. Then i met her, we texted each other on and off and recently when i got super close to her, i told her my thoughts..... i said had it not been because i'm emigrating, i would totally date her. I don't know what to think.... Is this a confession? She took it as one and told me my other friend is her boyfriend. They just started very recently and things already aren't looking too good. I am wayyyyy closer to her than her BF ever is and ever will be due to my proficiency in Japanese, i know a lot of things that he don't. After about 6 months, she asked me out.... I asked if it was a date she said no. Then i said forget it. Next day, i asked if she wanted to catch a movie. She said NOT after i told her how i feel about her. No movies, but we can go for a meal (huh, what??)... i turned it down. And then here comes the 3rd attempt at getting together, she asked if i would go to her house...... not to bonk her, but to perform some rituals. As it turns out, she isn't all that either. She's a BIG religious freak talking about the coming of christ (something similar to it, but it's a Japanese god, long story, don't ask) and kept talking about wanting to perform ceremony and rituals with me. That's a big turn off 'cos i'm an Atheist... but whatever, it means nothing to me but if it can bring her happiness, i'll do it. I haven't though. At first i thought it was some sort of cult and she was gonna sacrifice me to her god or something, but the more she explained to me, the more i could relate it to Christianity.... They are very similar in a lot of ways. Then i confronted her about her obsession with God.... we bickered till we got tired of each other but yet at the same time, we can't stop talking to each other. The next day i told her i understand how she felt, and if it means that much to her, i'd do it for her...... but only if she'd go out with me on a date. After hesitating, she said no.... she couldn't do it. I said it's cool, shows she has some self worth and i respect that. Then we talked a little about her BF and she told me things aren't looking too good and she is uncertain about their future. He probably wants to move to Japan, semi-hearted, maybe yes maybe no..... while she will definitely return eventually. I told her hearing that her R/S is in shaky grounds, i should be happy, but i'm not.... 'cos i don't see myself being with her (due to my goal of moving to Japan, i don't wanna start a R/S only to have it end). She replied she wouldn't date me either which shook me a little. We haven't been to any dates 1 on 1. Only met on group outings and that 3 attempts at meeting which failed horribly. What do you think of this whatchamacallit-ship? I've never had one like this where i made up my mind i won't date her, but i can't get enough of her. She didn't say it, but i'm sure she feels the same too.... it takes 2 to tango right? Else she would've ignored me a long time ago.
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