9aldridges Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 (edited) Hi all, Myself and my ex split last September after nearly 2 years together due to my growing commitments with work and her desire to have someone who was around more to provide more support for her and two kids. I took it on the chin and things were initially very amicable. Things took a turn for the worst when she started playing games which lead me to discover she had a new boyfriend just weeks after we split up. I wasn't particularly bitter about that as I had prepared myself for it as I was aware of her insecurities but after she tore into my family I lost it with her and threatened her, not physically but verbally warned her so as to stop her in her tracks. Her dad then weighed in a week later threatening physical violence. It drew a line in the sand and I walked away. Ever since, I've toyed with the idea of apologising. Do I feel I need to? Maybe. We both said hurtful things but I took it too far. I've tried everything else but feel that a heartfelt apology will not only allow me to draw the line in the sand but hopefully allow any animosity on her side to subside? Just wanted to get some other opinions. All of my friends think it's a terrible idea but if it helps me to put it behind me, is it worth taking the risk? Cheers, 9 Edited April 15, 2015 by 9aldridges additional information
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