Hulahoops88 Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 I recently got back with my ex. It was a tough break up(I ended it). She said she didnt move on but still started seeing someone casually 2 months after the break up. She says she was still trying to win me back(we still met up and slept together once). However, she was still seeing another guy, sleeping with him etc. I tried to get the relationship back going again and she said no, that i was too late. That hurt as i felt she was leading me on or keeping me as a plan b. Long story short, we are back together again but i cant help shake the feeling that i might of been plan b. maybe she was just looking for a rebound but it still hurts to imagine her in bed with another man. i know people will tell me that it was my fault for ending it etc. there were legit reasons for ending it. i just never moved on after the relationship out of guilt for my ex who used to ring me crying. but now hearing she was with another guy means she may of moved on a little quicker than i thought.Is it just my ego thats getting in the way. We are together now and were very happy but now and again i get doubts about my girlfriend. I feel kind of used. I was her agony aunt until she moved on and then when she finally got me back, i wasnt good enough at the time??
PegNosePete Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 Why on earth would you take her back in those circumstances? Of course you're worried, she has shown that she's perfectly happy to have sex with 2 people at once. What's to stop her doing that again now that you're "back together"?
Gary S Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 Time is the great healer, the feelings of cheating will diminish in time. It's just going to suck for awhile. Try not to be mad at her... why would a beautiful woman need to be alone? It's just their nature to have somebody... you would have had somebody too if you had legs like that!
soyou Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 REMEMBER THIS: If it doesnt work out the 1st time, why it will work on the 2nd time? You broke with her for a legitimate reason. I'm pretty sure that that reason is still there.
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