tito1501 Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 For starters, I am a 22 years old boy. When I am single I am always making out with girls, no concerns about what they are doing, why they do not reply me as quick as I expect them to and so on; however, as soon as I start to have feelings for a particular girl I feel as like my brain has been compressed, my universe has become small, as if it was as big as the universe between me and this girl. Just to give some examples: -If I text her, I always start to get concerned if she is not replying as before, when she was really talkative. - If in January I was thinking about traveling with some friends for 2 months in the summer holidays, now, being with this girl, I plan to have a shorter trip with my friends and then having a longer trip with this girl. - I am leaving her home on a sunday, knowing that there is a holiday on next wednesday, since then, I already think that it would be really nice to meet her on wednesday and from then on , I start thinking whether I should invite her out or not, being always concerned if by doing this it would show her that I am needy by doing this. I think I am doing something wrong from the very beginning of a relationship, I feel as if I start depending on the girl to have the happiness that I have all the time when I am single, and then I start to detach from this person instead of putting some effort in this relationship. I would be grateful if you could share some advices as to how a person should deal with the beginning of a relationship. Thank you !
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