CarrieT Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 After chatting only for two weeks and only two dates? Ummmmm..... NO! You don't know each other well enough yet for that kind of talk. Don't go there.
melissacus Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 Yes, I agree with the others. I would take a different approach. Just let it happen, its more exciting and fun that way
fitnessfan365 Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 (edited) Yea and not asking is how rape happens. A first kiss is not sex. It's simply a basic expression of interest to see her again. Now obviously you have to use common sense, and only act if there is chemistry.You're not just going to force yourself on a woman that's showing no obvious signs of interest. But if she's making her interest clear and obviously wants to be kissed, the LAST thing a guy should do is ask her permission. I mean be honest. As a woman, wouldn't you be far more attracted to a guy that read your signals and just acted? Depends on the type of women she is. How much experience she has etc. What kind of sex she likes. Personally I take things kind of slowly. I always start with kissing, then move to touching, then oral sex for awhile, then intercourse. I try to make the oral sex phase last as long as I can because that's the most satisfying type of sex for me and once a girl puts out actual sex cunnilingus becomes a rare occurrence. Don't generalize. Giving a woman oral is one of my biggest turn ons. In fact, I'd say that I have a minor fetish for it. There are obvious exceptions, like if you're having a quickie. But in general, I go down on a woman every time I have sex with her. It's funny because one of my all time favorite sexual compliments I ever got was 'You eat pu**y like a lesbian". Since a woman would know how to please a woman best in that arena, it made my night! Edited April 14, 2015 by fitnessfan365
Omei Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 Haha.. This was hot for a few reasons. You sound like a woman that know how to move her body, work her hips, and back her ass up. Secondly, you want a guy to own that p***y. Can't speak for all women. Only the ones I've slept with. But after weeks of seduction and foreplay, they wanted their clothes ripped off and me to take what I wanted. The harder I made them grip the sheets, the more multiples that followed. For me personally, I've always seen sex and intimacy as two separate things. Intimacy comes from emotional bonding outside the bedroom, and sex is about pleasure and lust. I couldn't agree more.
preraph Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 I think it's really awkward when someone says something like that to you. I'd be wondering why they were talking about it instead of doing it. If you feel like you need to discuss it, then you probably haven't dated her long enough. The natural order of things is date her and do things together and then just let it happen in a natural way.
Erised Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 That phrasing is tacky and cheesy I would not want to hear that. It would be a negative. Let it come naturally the first time.
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