ChristineNL Posted April 16, 2005 Posted April 16, 2005 I talked to my bf who is on the chat who is vacation right now.. and he sayd something weird I said i heard something i was about to say something from my sister but he immediarly thought is was about him and said Who said something??? i mean normally if i tthink someone was talking bout me i would say what did that one say and not who??? should i be suspicous??? i also said that it would crush me if u cheated on me on this he didnt react! i would be hurt if he think i was cheating??? and he wasnt at all!! he showed me what he bought for me on webcam to make me change subject! and i also find he weird that he never replies my textmsg! he only send 3 msg to me during this vacation! he even forgets i have sended one and yesterday his friend asked me did i talk to my bf? i said yes and his friend said well???? i said it was nothing why??? his friend replied me ow its nothing... im really in a bad mood right now.. is he cheating me?? r his reactions normal? is it me????? x(
Impressive1 Posted April 16, 2005 Posted April 16, 2005 ummm.... I'm lost. Could you re-type that in English? Sorry, but I really don't understand half of what you said. Something about thinking your boyfriend is cheating? How old are you and how long have you been together?
Author ChristineNL Posted April 16, 2005 Author Posted April 16, 2005 hahaha sorry im from amsterdam (europe) my english s*** hehe... My boyfriend is on vacation right now and i had an arguement with him today on the chat. I was dissapointed cuz he didnt reply my txt msg again! he said he was carrying bags and didnt look at his phone the whole day which i know its a lie cuz then later he tell me he did text me back? so he did see it!! but i didnt receive anything! He openened his webcam to show me things he bought for me to make me happy and said he shopping for me the whole day. I was going to tell him something about my sister i started with "I heard a lot of things today.." He immediatly thought it was about him and said "who said somethin?" If i was thinking someone is talking about me i would like to know What was saying and not Who is saying something about me rite?? Yesterday his friend asked me did i talk to my bf? i said yes why? he said ow its nothing nvm??? I also said on this chat session that i would be crushed if i know he was cheating or meeting new girls and he didnt respond he said he was going offline and then he left... I would be so hurt if he think I was cheating!? but he wasnt he was like... im leaving! goodnight! ttyl! love ya *gone* I dunno what to think.. My head is full of thoughts :S I hope u can read this i put a lot of effort in it Thank u hehe
Author ChristineNL Posted April 16, 2005 Author Posted April 16, 2005 ow im 20 and we have been together for almost 2 yrs now...
Impressive1 Posted April 16, 2005 Posted April 16, 2005 Ok, well you've been together awhile. Has he ever given you reason to think he was cheating before? Gosh, a man goes on vacation and shops for his girlfriend? Wow, that seems really nice to me. But if he's shopping for you to make himself feel better about sneaking around with someone that is totally messed up. I think that maybe you should just talk to him and expain the way you feel. Maybe you are reading into things too much, because you miss him so, or because it has been a while since the two of you have seen eachother. Women's intuition goes a long way, mine has mostly always been correct. I hope this time your's isn't and he's not cheating on you. I would definately talk to him immediately about this, not in a threatening tone, but in more of a "please help me understand that I am the only one you want to be with" tone. I wish you the best of luck, and please let me know how things go.
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