Davidcee Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 So today I saw my ex at the gym we haven't taked in 2 months I went NC. So before I seen her about 3 months ago she told me "I dont appriciate you texting me at this time" I took that as don't talk to me and she also said"good luck in the future" so there times when she sees me and walks the other way in front of me. But today she passed by me like literally almost touching me. I chose not to look at her or say hi mainly because I was nervous but because she also made it seem like I shouldn't tak to her. My friend said she eyeballed me when she passed by idk if she wanted me to say hi but I was also ready if she would of said hi first. Idk if I did the right thing or if I messed up. Because the same 3 months ago I looked at her and didn't say hi and she said "I'm don't you know if you don't want to talk whatever I'm done trying". So now I'm confused if I did the right thing? Any help would be great thank you.
PegNosePete Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 IT's impossible to know what the "right thing" is if we don't know your objective here. What are you trying to achieve? Trying to win her back? Trying to get over her? Trying to get her out of your life? Trying to make her suffer for what she did? What?
FancyFace Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 You are overthinking things. Continue NC and healing. Anything else as it pertains to her is a waste of time and energy. 1
Author Davidcee Posted April 14, 2015 Author Posted April 14, 2015 IT's impossible to know what the "right thing" is if we don't know your objective here. What are you trying to achieve? Trying to win her back? Trying to get over her? Trying to get her out of your life? Trying to make her suffer for what she did? What? Trying to win her back
Throldur Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 Trying to win her back Then ignoring her was the right thing to do.
stillafool Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 She sounds like a clown. Sorry but if someone told me to not text them and wished me good luck for the future that would be it! I would constantly look past them as if they were removed from this earth. I hope you move on from her. 1
ZiggyZoo Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 She sounds like a clown. Sorry but if someone told me to not text them and wished me good luck for the future that would be it! I would constantly look past them as if they were removed from this earth. I hope you move on from her. Yeah, I agree. I think ignoring her was the best, because it sounds to me like she's not interested. So she was maybe looking at you, walked kinda close, and didn't say anything? I don't know what else you could have done, she gave no indication that she wanted anything to do with you.
Hawaii51 Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 You can still be a human being when your ex is shaking her tail. Be cordial, that's all anyone can expect (if they make that mistake).
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