GirlyGurl Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 Met a guy online. First date was coffee..not too bad, second date was an impromptu dinner...little better. He then asked me for a third date....coffee at my house. I said no to that. So we made plans for a date this Saturday night. I just got a text from him asking me out for this week. Huh? At first I thought he was kidding. And then realized he wasn't. He didn't remember the day, time or place we were going and asked me to refresh his memory. He didn't even know the only info that had been decided was the day. The place and time had not yet been determined. Guess he had so many women on the line he was getting us mixed up. Geesh....get a pen and write it down, for God's sake. Told him not to contact me again. But, I had a good laugh. 2
neowulf Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 Met a guy online. First date was coffee..not too bad, second date was an impromptu dinner...little better. He then asked me for a third date....coffee at my house. I said no to that. So we made plans for a date this Saturday night. I just got a text from him asking me out for this week. Huh? At first I thought he was kidding. And then realized he wasn't. He didn't remember the day, time or place we were going and asked me to refresh his memory. He didn't even know the only info that had been decided was the day. The place and time had not yet been determined. Guess he had so many women on the line he was getting us mixed up. Geesh....get a pen and write it down, for God's sake. Told him not to contact me again. But, I had a good laugh. Yeah I keep notes for just this reason Also resist the urge to talk with too many woman at once. It just leads to confusion and frustration.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 Yeah I was dating two girls, one had 7 siblings and the other had 4.... I was talking to the girl with 4 and I was like "Uhh you have 6 sisters and 1 brother right?" and she was like uhhh no lol (we were on a few dates by this point between both) Moral of the story, dating too many people at once leads to confusion Lol. I try take notes sometimes for important stuff. @OP, him making the coffee date at your house... Uhhh.. Weird! lol Sounds like he just wanted to get laid. 2
Gary S Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 If ya think that's bad, wait until they call ya by the wrong name Which reminds me of something.... when I was with my ex girlfriend, a couple of times she called me by her ex's name! I did not mind though, thought it was funny! Hey, as long as I'm the only one kissin' her now... ..........................wait for it.............................. .......................I'll answer to anything 2
Redhead14 Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 If ya think that's bad, wait until they call ya by the wrong name Which reminds me of something.... when I was with my ex girlfriend, a couple of times she called me by her ex's name! I did not mind though, thought it was funny! Hey, as long as I'm the only one kissin' her now... ..........................wait for it.............................. .......................I'll answer to anything David Allan Coe "You don't have to call me darlin', darlin. You never even called me by my name . . ." 1
Redhead14 Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 I'm so cheap, Ha-Ha! So a cheap line like this might work on ya? -- "You remind me of a traffic ticket . . . you got fine written all over you" 2
Gary S Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 In a voice like Sylvester Stallone, "Yo Adrian, I'll take you upstairs and violate you like a parking meter" 1
Redhead14 Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 In a voice like Sylvester Stallone, "Yo Adrian, I'll take you upstairs and violate you like a parking meter" Let me get all my quarters together! I gotta keep feeding the meter At the bar . . . Hey, Gary, you gotta step away from the bar . . . you're melting all the ice. This could go on and on A little levity here is good once in a while.
Mrin Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 When I was actively dating I used to keep a little cheat sheet on each woman. Just notes of things I had picked up in our conversations. I started it because I had confused a fact about one woman's old brother. One had be killed in the service. The other was rehabbing an injury. Yep - sort of screwed that one up "hey, how's your brother feeling?" 1
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 When I was actively dating I used to keep a little cheat sheet on each woman. Just notes of things I had picked up in our conversations. I started it because I had confused a fact about one woman's old brother. One had be killed in the service. The other was rehabbing an injury. Yep - sort of screwed that one up "hey, how's your brother feeling?" Oh god... That must have been terrible
Dork Vader Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 um I've forgotten about dates before and I was not seeing any other women. I have a legit reason for it though.. I fell from 2.5 stories in the air face first onto flat groomed snow. I was easily traveling at 45MPH or faster when I fell from that hight. I was unconscious for over 2 hours and in out of consciousness for about 4. Anyways I've had memory issues ever since. I've also had confusion be the cause of this. For what ever reason I don't think they are being serious about the next date or plans. Either way people can be forgetful at times for what ever reason. I'm sure many of us here are guilty of it at some point or another.
smackie9 Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 2 lukewarm dates and already fishing for an over nighter.....bub-bye:laugh:
Author GirlyGurl Posted April 14, 2015 Author Posted April 14, 2015 Who knows the reason.... But he could have called on the phone told me he screwed up and forgotten the plans and made a little joke and all would have been forgiven. But to text me then try to gaslight me is not a good look. We are all on our best behavior at the beginning of any relationship and if this is starting to happen on date 3, I have to wonder what is really going on. Dork, I would absolutely give him a pass if he fell on his face and was unconscious but he kept trying ton guess the day of the week we had a date. I guess he figured he would eventually get it right with seven guesses but what day does he first guess????? Wednesday! Not Friday...not Saturday.....but Wednesday....lol. If I was going to take a shot in the dark I would have guessed Saturday night as our other 2 dates have been on.......Saturday night. But no....he pops up with Wednesday April 15 th and I am a tax accountant. Would anyone really want to spend the evening of April 15th with a tax accountant??? And, yes, he knows what I do for a living. I think this is a flameout.
Omei Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 (edited) So a cheap line like this might work on ya? -- "You remind me of a traffic ticket . . . you got fine written all over you" I had someone tell me yesterday "If I could rearrange the alphabet id give you the D" I had a good laugh LOL I think you did the right thing OP I wouldn't wanna go out someplace with someone who forgot me unless it was legit like Dork Vader's story. Edited April 14, 2015 by Omei
Recommended Posts