jackman0612 Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 I feel that I have a good rapport with a girl I am dating. We have been on great dates, I know she is very attracted to me. I call her once a week for a few hours and if I get voicemail she normally returns call. After our last date, I texted her got one reply and none after. Called her the next day and she doesn't return the call. Could she be playing hard to get? Or should I be looking to move on?
h0000 Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 How long have you been dating? seems like months? Its a little late to play hard to get I guess? Why not just ask her what happened before you move on
Author jackman0612 Posted April 14, 2015 Author Posted April 14, 2015 How long have you been dating? seems like months? Its a little late to play hard to get I guess? Why not just ask her what happened before you move on Actually not too long. Exactly a month
Gary S Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 Not returning a call is beyond playing hard to get, it's just plain rude, or she's no longer interested.
fitnessfan365 Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 To be honest, it seems like you're getting too attached and that's why she wants space. 1) Two hour phone calls. This screams over eager. You can have a good quality phone call where you touch base and make plans in 10-20 minutes tops. Save most of the communication for dates. 2) Doing a follow up call less than 24 hrs after she didn't respond to a text screams needy. It would be one thing if 4-5 days went by. But it was less than one day. Give the girl some time to respond. So now you have to show some self control and allow her to get back to you. If she's as interested as you say, she won't just disappear from your life. She'll touch base when she's ready. Then when she does, act like it's no big deal and make the next date.
d0nnivain Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 One not returned phone call could be her cel battery died or she was busy. A pattern of not returned calls is game playing. This is probably just a misunderstanding.
Frank2thepoint Posted April 14, 2015 Posted April 14, 2015 After our last date The turning point for her behavior towards you happened after your last date. So there could be the possibility she lost interest. Have you initiated physical contact, like hand holding or touching the arm at least? Some women like a man that gets physical with her early on in dating, indicating his sexual desire for her. Or maybe you did get physical and she didn't like it. There are a lot of women that don't like affectionate behavior as well.
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