kissmybooty Posted April 13, 2015 Posted April 13, 2015 (edited) Ok so the long distance guy that I've met once has taken things on a serious level for good now. So we are virtually dating (long distance) and he made the exclusivity promise. I am 30 he is 34...We can't see each other for the next 5 months due to our work. We speak on skype, etc. here's the problem: Time and again he will bring sex in our conversations. Like do you like such and such... etc etc...? I get confused and unsure of him when he asks me those questions. Not because I am uncomfortable with them but I start doubting how serious he is about me whenever he asks me those questions. However he has never tried to "cyber sex" like some guys would. Which makes him a little better. Anyway, does this behavior from him sound like a bad sign? How do I answer them anyway? I am a wild child when it comes to imagination, so if it were upto me the conversation would get too vulgar. But I don't want to do this because then he'll lose respect--- such a double edged sword. Side note: Like I said before I'm too inexperienced with dating and don't have many friends right now to ask these kinda questions. Yes my grad school made me a social outcast for a few years allowing me to focus just on myself but it took away great friendships, I am just starting to build new ones now. Edited April 13, 2015 by kissmybooty
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