Is somone out there going though what I'm going through?

[brookesane]

Did he cheat? If yes, break up. If no, possibly break up anyway.

 

This is too much drama as it is.

Yes he did cheat and yes its loads of drama. If it wasn't for thr history and the years we have been together I would have walked away by now. its just I don't know how to explain it. Complicated is an understatememt at this point.

[whichwayisup]

Does her boyfriend know she cheated and there's a possibility that the child (IF she is actually pregnant) might not be his?

 

Yes, there's tons of drama and your boyfriend created it to begin with. Instead of talking to you, he allowed some gossipy girl convince him you were cheating and then he chose to cheat out of spite?

 

I would put the engagement/wedding on hold. Give him space to figure it out and you do some thinking if you really want him and could you trust him again.

 

This all is HIS drama not yours so you should not have to deal with it.

[Phoenician]

It doesn't make sense if someone came to me and told me my wife is cheating me that I go and cheat on her .

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If this the start , what would happen when you go through normal hassles we encounter as married ( Financial , stress, etc ....) .

 

If you go with this logic , I would be free 18 times per year to escort girls while I am on Business travel because my wife denied me sex before I travel !

 

The norm is that ppl sit and talk , and resolve their issues before creating problems .