lostintranslation89 Posted April 13, 2015 Posted April 13, 2015 I am trying my best to keep this story as succinct and to-the-point as possible: -5 years ago (in my last year of high school), I met a guy -We fb chat all summer and met maybe once for a couple of hours -Nothing came out of it as he was moving to a city 4-5 hours away -Over the years, we messaged each other maybe once or twice -He is now back and we have gotten in touch again -Our conversation is pretty limited as he isn't as open as I am and gets weirded out when I try to be social and bring up different topics (for example, he was baffled as to why I would ask how his family was doing) -In the last two weeks, we have hung out 3 times -I offered to pick him up and drop him off at home after work as he works near me and lives near me as well. During this interaction, he said we should hang out that weekend. -Weekend arrives: did not hear from him so I messaged him asking to hang, we went out to a restaurant, afterwards when it was time to head home, we sat in the car and talked for a couple of hours. I wanted a kiss at the end so when he offered to shake my hand or hug me, I refused to both, so after a long silence and eye contact, he pulled me in and kissed me before leaving. -After this interaction, he reached out to me three times. First interaction was the day after we hung out over text and I stopped responding cause conversation was headed nowhere. Second interaction was 2 days after that and again I stopped responding as he wasn't making a genuine effort to talk (or as he likes to say, he's too "busy"). Third interaction, he asked if I was in the area so we could head home together. I was, so we carpooled together a second time. -After we parked outside his house, he pointed to his cheek for a kiss. I refused. We bantered back and forth before he finally pulled me in for a kiss. We ended up making out for 20 mins. -This time around, I did not hear from him for 2 days. I messaged him on the weekend asking if he was free, he said an emergency with a friend came up and he would tell me later on. "Later on" rolls around and instead of explaining himself, he asks for a rain check. I did not respond to either message. 3 days have passed and I haven't heard from him again and have not messaged him again. Background info on him: he's the nerdy type but for some reason likes to talk a big game which I see through, based on the little info he has decided to divulge about past relationships, his girlfriends have broken up with him cause he was too busy (but that could be a lie for all I know) On me: I am super open and I find it weird that we can't converse about anything and everything, I have tried picking his brain a few times but he remains closed off, appearance wise, I know I sound like a douche for saying this but I am better looking than him so it can't be that he feels like he can do better aesthetically speaking. That being said, what is going on???
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