Should I just call my BF today, although he ignored my communication yesterday

[MiaMckenz]

My boyfriend and I have been together for like 2 years now. He’s 27 and I’m 25. This past Saturday my boyfriend asked me to come spend the night over his house, and I told him that I would come to his house then leave to go home after he falls asleep. The reason being, is that i cannot sleep good whatsoever on his bead (it's actually a hard futon), which he knows. He knows i have difficulty sleeping overall and he KNOWS that i cannot sleep on this futon at all. I've told him over and over again, that i cannot sleep on his futon at all because it's too hard and uncomfortable, after sleeping over countless times and waking up tired and miserable. So before driving to his house, he said he shouldn't have to force me to spend the night and that it wouldn't matter if I came over. But, to be the bigger person i still drove to his house, but we were both distant to each other. My reason for me being distant to him is that i find it kinda selfish that he knows i can't sleep well by him, but i'm still came to see him. It's like he just cares about himself in this situation. After about 5 minutes he told me again, "why are you over here if you're going to act this way. I told you that you didn't have to come". So after he said that, I got annoyed and told him that I was leaving since he preferred that I wasn't there

So on my way home, he called me 5 times and texted me saying that he wanted to apologize, but i wasn't having it. He should have never said he didn't care if i was there or let me walk out the door in the first place. I had no urge to speak to him at all, but I simply texted him back saying that there was no need for an apology. Maybe I should have picked up the phone, but I don’t know.This happened Saturday night, so yesterday afternoon I texted him saying “thanks for trying to apologize, but I wasn’t having it. I’m over the situation now and I love you”. I haven’t received a response to my text or any form of communication at all. How should I handle this situation.

[d0nnivain]

You should learn to handle the situation maturely. He knows what the issue is & so do you. If neither one of you can afford to get him a more comfortable bed, have sleep overs at your house. Ignoring each other & pouting is ridiculous. Solve the problem or work around it but don't just sit there & be passive aggressive about it.

[Diezel]

Maybe I'll ask the hard question: Why is a 27 year old male sleeping on a futon?

 

And this isn't even me trying to be funny. ANYTHING is better than that. Even some cheap flimsy discount mattress anywhere else.

 

Honestly, just keep saying it's STRICTLY about the mattress. No matter what.

[Auspecial]

He should have gotten a different bed a loooong time ago. He's either overly self-absorbed, and disinterested in your well-being, in expecting you to go to him and not sleep well -OR- he is trying to create dissatisfaction so the relationship doesn't ever progress.

 

Either way, I would be re-evaluating his value as a functioning boyfriend.

[Redhead14]

My boyfriend and I have been together for like 2 years now. He’s 27 and I’m 25. This past Saturday my boyfriend asked me to come spend the night over his house, and I told him that I would come to his house then leave to go home after he falls asleep. The reason being, is that i cannot sleep good whatsoever on his bead (it's actually a hard futon), which he knows. He knows i have difficulty sleeping overall and he KNOWS that i cannot sleep on this futon at all. I've told him over and over again, that i cannot sleep on his futon at all because it's too hard and uncomfortable, after sleeping over countless times and waking up tired and miserable. So before driving to his house, he said he shouldn't have to force me to spend the night and that it wouldn't matter if I came over. But, to be the bigger person i still drove to his house, but we were both distant to each other. My reason for me being distant to him is that i find it kinda selfish that he knows i can't sleep well by him, but i'm still came to see him. It's like he just cares about himself in this situation. After about 5 minutes he told me again, "why are you over here if you're going to act this way. I told you that you didn't have to come". So after he said that, I got annoyed and told him that I was leaving since he preferred that I wasn't there

So on my way home, he called me 5 times and texted me saying that he wanted to apologize, but i wasn't having it. He should have never said he didn't care if i was there or let me walk out the door in the first place. I had no urge to speak to him at all, but I simply texted him back saying that there was no need for an apology. Maybe I should have picked up the phone, but I don’t know.This happened Saturday night, so yesterday afternoon I texted him saying “thanks for trying to apologize, but I wasn’t having it. I’m over the situation now and I love you”. I haven’t received a response to my text or any form of communication at all. How should I handle this situation.

 

The ball is in his court. Leave it there. You apologized. Let him contact you first. Let this die down a bit. In the meantime, be busy with other things. Wait it out. Don't reach out to him again. When he's ready, he will contact you and you can handle it from there. I don't like his attitude either. And, if he wants to see you, he should come to your house.