zeeetaar Posted April 13, 2015 Posted April 13, 2015 (edited) You might think this to be too soon but i dated this guy for 2 weeks and be broke up with me. I didnt think too much of if but as the weeks go by i getting sadder because i think he was the one that got away? I'm not too sure... I wasn't in love with him or anything but i was extremely attached. We met at the first year of high school and he was that chubby kid, but in grade 10 i began to like him and vice versa, however I was like "nah, he can't like me, hes acts like that to everyone". We talked a lot back then and we got along so well but he just never made any moves. However, in grade 11 started going out with this guy who and we were very serious and shortly after that, so did the other guy. But through out our relationship both of us would talk, but not a lot. I had this feeling in my gut through out my senior years that if that guy dumped his girl friend, i would consider dumping mine. Some time during this period, he turned from a chubby boy to a really handsome guy and had many girls swooning. We've both graduated and i thought i would probably never see him again. My boyfriend and I ended up breaking up up first and he got dumped to a few months after and went on anti-depressants because he realised his brain wasn't producing a chemical. A few months after we start talking again and we hang out quite a bit, and within two weeks, he takes me somewhere sweet and kisses me. On the ride how, he just kept gushing about how unbelievable he got me and that how flustered he was that "a girl as cool as you" would like him back. our relationship lasted two week but he just acted really sweet/serious. He gave me a ring from his collection, he'd drive me places and said he would take me here and there. Gave me his clothes to take home. he'd sing to me and said he has an idea of a song for me. He even told me he liked me back in grade 10 and that ever since he started having sex, he would only think about me. We did end up sleeping together because, well i couldn't resist. I had the best time but idk about him because he kept saying his medicine held him back. Slowly we stopped talking but after a while he stopped replying. He ended things with me saying this was quite serious, and i was like fair enough, we want different things but now i just feel terrible. His friend said that i'm a tad like his ex and he trying to get away from that. He's also changed a lot since the medication, like he wasn't as chatty and he didnt feel the need to reply. I had so much god damn fun with him, and we both have the same attitude to life. I've just never met someone so a like to me as him. The more i got to know him, the more i realised we were almost the same person. Its been a month but is it too soon to say he was the one that got away? TL;DR Liked a guy for years, dated him for two week, got dumped because it was too serious/i reminded him of his ex, didnt think much of it. one month later realised he and i might be perfect for each other and might be the one that got away. Is it too soon? Edited April 13, 2015 by zeeetaar
spiderowl Posted April 13, 2015 Posted April 13, 2015 Unfortunately, it sounds like he wasn't too serious about you and just wanted some fun. It may be that the meds affected him but I doubt they would affect him that much. I'd consider he probably wasn't the right guy for you because the right guy would have been just as keen as you. 1
Sugarkane Posted April 15, 2015 Posted April 15, 2015 I've found handsome guys to be really arrogant.
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