What is the best way to appproach a woman you don't know and haven't seen before?

[My lover]

Please can I have some advice on what works and doesn't when approaching a woman. Starting a conversation and pulling thankyou.

Edited April 13, 2015 by My lover

[Toodaloo]

Just talk to them. Ask their opinion on something or make comment on something that is happening around you both. Talk to them for a bit. Don't think of it as asking them out or trying to get a date, think of it as just talking to another human being.

 

Example - in a food shop.

"Do you have any idea how to tell if these melons are ripe or not? I know there is a trick but I can't remember what it is and I want to get one that will last for a couple of days so I don't have to come back in again..."

 

or "I want to try a new sauce with my steak do you know if this one is any good or do you have any ideas?"

 

or "I have no idea what to eat tonight and was looking for inspiration can you help me?"

 

or "I want to get a bottle of red wine for my friend as I know he likes it but I don't know much about it. Do you know how I can pick a good one for him?"

 

Obviously it depends on which isle you are in as to what you start talking about. But its making conversation out of nothing...

[jen1447]

My lover, you seem to start a great many threads looking for tips along these lines. I really don't think amassing a bunch of tips is going to help in your case. You might be better off considering why you feel you need all this info and addressing that from within, as in accepting yourself for who you are, etc. Just a thought.

[My lover]

jen1447 You look like and remind me of Jennifer Aniston.

Edited April 14, 2015 by My lover