pleasedtomeetyou Posted April 13, 2015 Posted April 13, 2015 Hello all, hoping you people can give me some sage advice on this situation. I'm 30 years old, solid job and life is generally together. The unique thing is that i've only been dating for the past year and I had my first 'girlfriend' about 9 months ago. She introduced me to sex and was very experienced and open about everything. Truly somebody who rocked my world. Unfortunately, this lasted only for 4 months and i've been on loads of dates and had some ONS's since then but i've struggled to make connections with these new people. I'm past the point of directly comparing new women to this lady because I know all people are different. But I think the issue is that this lady really showed me what it is I want in a relationship and the things I find attractive about women. None of these women I meet have many of these qualities, at least they are not evident from a few dates. I'm the type of person that is quick to make judgments, so if something doesn't feel right after 2-3 dates I am quick to stop things in their tracks. I'm not really sure if I have a direct question here, but I was just wondering if anyone has any advice or can speak from a similar experience. This issue isn't crippling my dating life, but it is a hurdle i'd like to overcome. Thanks!
Gary S Posted April 13, 2015 Posted April 13, 2015 You are probably on the rebound, google it. Time is the great healer, in time you'll get over this lady and be ready to fall in love with a new one.
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