Girls be honest which one of the guys you would want to have ?

[PrettyEmily77]

I have a theory 80% females ages 14-17 will pick guy 2 20% will be guy 1 18-21 60% guy 2 40% guy 1 22-25 guy 1 60% guy 2 40% /26-29 70% guy 1 30% guy 2 / 30-35 80% guy 1 20% guy 2 (by then its like were the guy 1s are ?)/35-40 90 % guy1 10% guy 2 am i wrong please elaborate if i am

 

 

Yes, your theory is wrong; not just because it lacks punctuation, but also because it's not a theory at all, just random percentages to suit your premise (which is also wrong).

 

To answer you question though, I will choose the guy I like, because I like him.

[jen1447]

I think the plain reality is that none of us would choose between #1 and #2, because we'd be ignoring #s 3 - 10,000, and why would anyone do that?

 

These notions of cookie cutter types are just plain false, sorry.

[Toodaloo]

 

3) The Natural - the gentleman with an edge, the man in the middle. This man is the true alpha male and rare and elusive. While he is respectful of others, he knows who he is and respects himself above others. he knows his place in this world beyond a shadow of a doubt. He treats her right, but deep down, she knows he is self-made, and can survive without her. He's not controlling, but gently leads. He says he's sorry when he's wrong, but never begs or grovels. Ladies, if you find one of these rare beasts, marry him

 

I intend to but the git is in hiding...

 

I figure I might get one of those metal detector things next in my attempts to find him... Heat source goggle scopes didn't work... Poking sharp sticks into hay stacks... my cousin even got me a frog from Christmas and said if I kissed it every day it may work... all thats happened is that I have learnt vasaline lip gloss is annoying to get off of ceramics...

 

If between the two, guy one but I would be going with him next time he goes shopping for glasses/ clothes etc... I would also be teaching him how to look after himself a bit better.

[sandylee1]

Neither would suit me. However, if I had to choose one, I'd try and work with guy number 1.

[Girl-in-love]

Well definitely on paper you would ideally choose 1. In reality guy 2 would be more appealing although his 'personality' and his not-so-good traits would be overlooked and not as exposed as on paper. Not many people like 'easy' people and certainly those that give you what you want without working for it...seems boring. Guy 2 would keep anyone on their tippy toes and most idealistic girls (I am one of them) would certainly LOVE the idea of being able to transform him into a nice guy.

 

From personal experience however, I would go for guy one. Since being with guy 2 usually makes me cranky and on edge due to my personality type.

[autumnnight]

I have never met a guy who was all 1. I have met a couple of men who were almost all 2.

 

I would definitely favor man 1, regardless of what a jaded man who cannot see inside my head may argue.

 

However, I would not favor any man who thinks that just because he is 1, I specifically "owe" it to him to be interested.

[pteromom]

Guy 1:Wants a successful future and wants to build one with you sometimes shy wants t just spend time with you regardless of what you too are doing hes carring sweet smart and beyond caring the definition of kindness treats you like the queen you are and always try to make you feel special and smile everyday but is socially awkward and is invisible in the dating world but will call and text you everday to see hows your day going and your probably the only guy hes ever dated and doing random acts of kindness is an a everyday thing for him also will do public and private romantic Gestures for you for and is not afraid to tell you how he feels about you with the looks as steve urkil.

 

This sounds ok, but I would need more info... is he secure in who he is? Is he too needy or clingy? Does he share my values and goals? Does he like to laugh? What you've described is a good baseline, but not enough info to build a relationship on.

 

Guy 2 :could care less hows your day going or how you feel about him disrespects you has had sex with females left and right and will say or do anything to get it from you using your heart and feelings as tools for it and the mosy phone calls youll get is from the county jail wanting bail money. And when your out in public some girls will swear they are currently going out with him or ask why wouldn't he call after having sex with them last weekend even flirts with other girls while your on a date together.

 

Curses like a Sailor infront of you ignore all your tect and calls and is the deffinition of an A$$ Hole with 3 different baby mamas in his life and treated them the same as you but has the looks and physique as jacob black, channing tatum . witch guy you would rather have please but your age as well will help too .

 

I wouldn't even go on ONE date with this guy. I'm in my 40s. But I would have given the same answer on guy 2 in my 20s.

[bebe23]

Type 1, and I have never had the pleasure of dating a type 2. But then, type 2's would have never gone for a woman like me anyway. My husband has mostly Type 1 traits, although he can be moody, and he's traditionally masculine (military, a firefighter.) He certainly does not look like Steve Urkel, so no complaint there. (FYI Steve Urkel grew up to be quite nice looking!)

[elaine567]

I have a theory

14-17 80% guy 2 20% guy 1

18-21 60% guy 2 40% guy 1

22-25 60% guy 1 40% guy 2

26-29 70% guy 1 30% guy 2

30-35 80% guy 1 20% guy 2 (by then its like were the guy 1s are ?)

35-40 90 % guy 1 10% guy 2

 

am i wrong please elaborate if i am

 

Is this "theory" actually based on anything factual?

[Jet96]

Type 1, and I have never had the pleasure of dating a type 2. But then, type 2's would have never gone for a woman like me anyway. My husband has mostly Type 1 traits, although he can be moody, and he's traditionally masculine (military, a firefighter.) He certainly does not look like Steve Urkel, so no complaint there. (FYI Steve Urkel grew up to be quite nice looking!)

i know he did i just wanted people to know the ones yiu reject now could look better in the different in the future

I can only hope for myself though

[elaine567]

I'm in my 40s.

 

I am very sorry, but Jet96's "theory" doesn't include anyone over 40.

[Rejected Rosebud]

Definitely boy #2 he sounds awesome!!!

[toolforgrowth]

The OP was totally a loaded question. That'd be like a woman asking:

 

Guys, which would you rather have?

 

1) A woman who will say yes to anything you say, is looking for you to provide direction and meaning to her life, who will make making you happy her sole purpose in life, and will bury any resentments she may have towards you so deep that you'll never have any idea they exist; or

 

2) A woman who will cheat on you, expect you to buy her everything, won't contribute a darned thing to the relationship, and is so entitled that she'll simply view you as a walking ATM?

 

I wouldn't say yes to either one of those situations. And anyone with half a brain cell will know it's not an either/or scenario.

 

The question I have for the OP is what are YOU going to do about your abysmal dating options? Have you learned to weed through the bad ones to find the good ones? Do you reject loaded "options" like OLD and search for women in the real world? Have you learned how to be single and happy in the first place? Do you take responsibility for your own happiness and success?

[BlueIris]

Guy 1:Wants a successful future and wants to build one with you sometimes shy wants t just spend time with you regardless of what you too are doing hes carring sweet smart and beyond caring the definition of kindness treats you like the queen you are and always try to make you feel special and smile everyday but is socially awkward and is invisible in the dating world but will call and text you everday to see hows your day going and your probably the only guy hes ever dated and doing random acts of kindness is an a everyday thing for him also will do public and private romantic Gestures for you for and is not afraid to tell you how he feels about you with the looks as steve urkil.

 

Guy 2 :could care less hows your day going or how you feel about him disrespects you has had sex with females left and right and will say or do anything to get it from you using your heart and feelings as tools for it and the mosy phone calls youll get is from the county jail wanting bail money. And when your out in public some girls will swear they are currently going out with him or ask why wouldn't he call after having sex with them last weekend even flirts with other girls while your on a date together.

 

Curses like a Sailor infront of you ignore all your tect and calls and is the deffinition of an A$$ Hole with 3 different baby mamas in his life and treated them the same as you but has the looks and physique as jacob black, channing tatum . witch guy you would rather have please but your age as well will help too .

 

A woman’s priorities play a huge role in the type of men she wants to hang around- just like for men. Don’t assume that all or most women want to get married or be in a serious relationship. In HS and college, many women do NOT want a serious relationship because they’re busy, focused on their own success and not wanting the responsibilities that come with a serious romantic relationship.

 

BOTH of your example guys sound high-drama. Though you’ve slanted your descriptions to make guy #1 sound better, it actually sounds as though he expects and wants a lot of time and attention. He’s not going to have that successful career he claims to want if he’s doting on his GF that much. Queens have staff for that.

[Jet96]

I am very sorry, but Jet96's "theory" doesn't include anyone over 40.

 

Dosent have too they are more mature to know .

[Jet96]

A woman’s priorities play a huge role in the type of men she wants to hang around- just like for men. Don’t assume that all or most women want to get married or be in a serious relationship. In HS and college, many women do NOT want a serious relationship because they’re busy, focused on their own success and not wanting the responsibilities that come with a serious romantic relationship.

 

BOTH of your example guys sound high-drama. Though you’ve slanted your descriptions to make guy #1 sound better, it actually sounds as though he expects and wants a lot of time and attention. He’s not going to have that successful career he claims to want if he’s doting on his GF that much. Queens have staff for that.

but who will be better though to you ?

[toolforgrowth]

but who will be better though to you ?

 

Dude. Do you REALLY think that anyone here will actually say they will choose the lesser of two evils? Would YOU??

 

Just because one might be a single iota better than the other doesn't make it an attractive option. They are both still undesirable; the only difference is a matter of scale.

[BlueIris]

lol. Neither.

[Jet96]

Dude. Do you REALLY think that anyone here will actually say they will choose the lesser of two evils? Would YOU??

 

Just because one might be a single iota better than the other doesn't make it an attractive option. They are both still undesirable; the only difference is a matter of scale.

ok so you are saying both are bad if it there what is good

[Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646]

ok so you are saying both are bad if it there what is good

 

You're omitting option #3

 

3) Confident, good-looking guy who is secure in himself and treats others right. Is assertive and doesn't put up with crap from people. He knows he is the prize, and doesn't seek to constantly validate himself to the Woman he is dating.

[GravityMan]

No offense, OP...but I think that threads like these are pointless. Some women will go for guy 1, others will be into guy 2, and many others won't be interested or attracted to either type of guy...they either prefer men that have some mix of 1 and 2, and/or they prefer different characteristics that both 1 and 2 are lacking. Women like what they like, their preferences are widely varied, and there are a whole lot of varied men that are very different than 1 and 2.

[Jet96]

No offense, OP...but I think that threads like these are pointless. Some women will go for guy 1, others will be into guy 2, and many others won't be interested or attracted to either type of guy...they either prefer men that have some mix of 1 and 2, and/or they prefer different characteristics that both 1 and 2 are lacking. Women like what they like, their preferences are widely varied, and there are a whole lot of varied men that are very different than 1 and 2.

You do have a point .

[SpiralOut]

I don't want either of them.

 

 

I fall for the funny guys.

[regine_phalange]

Guy 1:Wants a successful future and wants to build one with you sometimes shy wants t just spend time with you regardless of what you too are doing hes carring sweet smart and beyond caring the definition of kindness treats you like the queen you are and always try to make you feel special and smile everyday but is socially awkward and is invisible in the dating world but will call and text you everday to see hows your day going and your probably the only guy hes ever dated and doing random acts of kindness is an a everyday thing for him also will do public and private romantic Gestures for you for and is not afraid to tell you how he feels about you with the looks as steve urkil.

 

Guy 2 :could care less hows your day going or how you feel about him disrespects you has had sex with females left and right and will say or do anything to get it from you using your heart and feelings as tools for it and the mosy phone calls youll get is from the county jail wanting bail money. And when your out in public some girls will swear they are currently going out with him or ask why wouldn't he call after having sex with them last weekend even flirts with other girls while your on a date together.

 

Curses like a Sailor infront of you ignore all your tect and calls and is the deffinition of an A$$ Hole with 3 different baby mamas in his life and treated them the same as you but has the looks and physique as jacob black, channing tatum . witch guy you would rather have please but your age as well will help too .

 

Steve Urkel (the actor, not the character) is rather cute, but I'd wonder what the 1st guy's flaws are...