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Guy 1:Wants a successful future and wants to build one with you sometimes shy wants t just spend time with you regardless of what you too are doing hes carring sweet smart and beyond caring the definition of kindness treats you like the queen you are and always try to make you feel special and smile everyday but is socially awkward and is invisible in the dating world but will call and text you everday to see hows your day going and your probably the only guy hes ever dated and doing random acts of kindness is an a everyday thing for him also will do public and private romantic Gestures for you for and is not afraid to tell you how he feels about you with the looks as steve urkil.

 

Guy 2 :could care less hows your day going or how you feel about him disrespects you has had sex with females left and right and will say or do anything to get it from you using your heart and feelings as tools for it and the mosy phone calls youll get is from the county jail wanting bail money. And when your out in public some girls will swear they are currently going out with him or ask why wouldn't he call after having sex with them last weekend even flirts with other girls while your on a date together.

 

Curses like a Sailor infront of you ignore all your tect and calls and is the deffinition of an A$$ Hole with 3 different baby mamas in his life and treated them the same as you but has the looks and physique as jacob black, channing tatum . witch guy you would rather have please but your age as well will help too .

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I'm a guy, however, I could tell you from experience that they will say they want "Guy 1" but will be more attracted to "Guy 2". Why? Because "Guy 2" is more adventurous, more mysterious, and more fun. "Guy 1", even though he's nice, smart, and sweet is boring and predictable.

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I have dropped guy 2s i am susceptible to charm...but charm wears thin after a while..i want a genuine guy..I dont need a guy 2 in my life....nor would i settle for less than a guy 1.....i dont want drama in my life more than i have already..i would rather stay single...i dont need a guy 2 and i dont want one...i am 45....deb

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none of the above. I'd step back and re- organize my life choices . While most vacillate in character traits, a person ultimately needs to be held accountable for their flaws and improve (evolve) . My age: older then dirt.

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Who is better in bed?

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Who is better in bed?
that really all that matter to you we must really live in a shallow world then
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that really all that matter to you we must really live in a shallow world then

 

Okay forget that then...who has more money?

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I'm a guy, however, I could tell you from experience that they will say they want "Guy 1" but will be more attracted to "Guy 2". Why? Because "Guy 2" is more adventurous, more mysterious, and more fun. "Guy 1", even though he's nice, smart, and sweet is boring and predictable.

 

If I ever became attracted to guy 2, it would *before* I realized what a douchebag he was.

 

Once I realized it, I would drop him faster than a steaming hot potato...I don't tolerate nor am I attracted to that crap.

 

And girls who *would* be attracted ... and who *would* stay with such a man... are insecure, immature little girls with low self esteem who don't know their worth and who don't believe they deserve better. Period!

 

As for guy 1, I might feel attracted to him initially, depending on our chemistry, but in the long term, I would very likely feel suffocated by him...as I am very independent and need quite a bit of space.

 

The shyness and social awkwardness wouldn't matter to me, in fact if we clicked on an intellectual, emotional and sexual level, I would find those qualities endearing!

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Guy 3.

 

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Well if I had to choose between a doormat or an as shole as you described I would say none.

 

I appreciate a guy that has self respect and doesn't feel he has to please people to be accepted, and I wouldn't date an as shole, I have more self worth than to be treated like crap.

 

I pick Guy 3....my husband.

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Okay forget that then...who has more money?
In the end it would be guy #1
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If I ever became attracted to guy 2, it would *before* I realized what a douchebag he was.

 

Once I realized it, I would drop him faster than a steaming hot potato...I don't tolerate nor am I attracted to that crap.

 

And girls who *would* be attracted ... and who *would* stay with such a man... are insecure, immature little girls with low self esteem who don't know their worth and who don't believe they deserve better. Period!

 

As for guy 1, I might feel attracted to him initially, depending on our chemistry, but in the long term, I would very likely feel suffocated by him...as I am very independent and need quite a bit of space.

 

The shyness and social awkwardness wouldn't matter to me, in fact if we clicked on an intellectual, emotional and sexual level, I would find those qualities endearing!

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Goid smart ones out there i hope and pray their are more of you and i can find one like your personality and choice ls on this .

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What is your age btw

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Guy 1 with 20% guy 2 ;)

 

That's the balance really.

 

Women respect men who respect themselves.

 

They want a man who'll stand up to them. Who isn't afraid to push back or take charge when it's required. A man who can lead, yet take advice and cooperate when called for.

 

They want a man who can drop all the macho bull**** when required and really open up to them. Yet, at the same time, be a rock in times of hardship, reliable and dependable.

 

He should be able to make her laugh, yet be worldly with a sense of adventure & danger about him. Spontaneous, yet with the ability to plan and work towards the bigger goals.

 

He should be ambitious, yet laid back and not a workaholic. Kind, yet not a doormat.

 

If it seems like a lot of the above are complete contradictions, then you'd be spot on. Basically, women appear to want what a very limited subset of men seem to be able to provide.

 

Not that I blame them. I'd like to be that kind of man. But a very few man can meet all those requirements. Hell, many of them probably can't even meet half.

 

Men are just flesh and blood. Frail, human, flawed. Not super heroes, not knights in shining armor. Just people.

 

I wish both genders could find a little more kindness for each other.

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What is your age btw

 

Probably way too old for you darlin...36. But thank you for the compliment in your previous post! :bunny:

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Now if I had to choose between a shy guy vs an out going guy I would pick an out going guy because it would match my personality. I have dated shy guys....too much work when involved in social situations. I like a man that can stand on his own.

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There are basically three kinds of guys:

 

1) The bad boy - he acts like he has self-respect, but really does not. Many women are attracted to him, at least initially. When he emotionally (sometimes psychically beats the love right out of them, the woman often leaves him - and he is the one who finally breaks down and cries, because his self-esteem was fake.

 

2) The nice guy - has no self-respect, and treats others like they are better than him, he's a doormat. Women go for these guys less often. It's hard to respect someone if they don't respect themselves, and love is tied to respect.

 

3) The Natural - the gentleman with an edge, the man in the middle. This man is the true alpha male and rare and elusive. While he is respectful of others, he knows who he is and respects himself above others. he knows his place in this world beyond a shadow of a doubt. He treats her right, but deep down, she knows he is self-made, and can survive without her. He's not controlling, but gently leads. He says he's sorry when he's wrong, but never begs or grovels. Ladies, if you find one of these rare beasts, marry him :)

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I have a theory 80% females ages 14-17 will pick guy 2 20% will be guy 1 18-21 60% guy 2 40% guy 1 22-25 guy 1 60% guy 2 40% /26-29 70% guy 1 30% guy 2 / 30-35 80% guy 1 20% guy 2 (by then its like were the guy 1s are ?)/35-40 90 % guy1 10% guy 2 am i wrong please elaborate if i am

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Yup you would be old and wrinkly to be acceptable dating material to women.

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I would run a mile from either and stay single of those were the only options.

 

 

#1 would be too clingy for me and likely to be possessive and all that goes with that.

#2 speaks for itself, just not worth wasting any time one.

 

Luckily, guys are not all like either of those two choices.

 

 

Btw: I am in my 40's.

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that really all that matter to you we must really live in a shallow world then

This is standard phrasing for someone who's bad in bed.

 

Anyway, what a fishing expedition. Let me guess, you're guy #1 and you want hope that you'll get laid one day.

 

I dated guy #1. He was very sweet, he stared at me adoringly and ran to fulfill my every wish. I found his inexperience and awkwardness endearing and exciting at first. He was also smothering and insanely insecure. He was convinced I'd eventually leave him for a more social, better looking guy. He wanted to spend every second with me and would get upset when I hung out with friends especially guys. I eventually got tired of constantly having to reassure him and was bored because he had no interests outside of work and me.

 

You do realize there are more than 2 types of guys, right? I'm dating guy #3: a handsome gentleman with balls of steel and a heart of gold. The natural as Gary puts it.

 

If I couldn't have him, I'd date guy #4: a guy who can spell.

 

Also, for the record, I have a couple friends who are less than gentleman who make far more than the guy #1 that I dated. One was a millionaire at 24 and the other owns a successful business. Charm and confidence translate to business as well as getting with women. Just because sweet little guy #1 wants to be successful doesn't mean he will be in the end.

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Which ever guy uses paragraphs. 32

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Another nice guy OP who gives only two options, door mat or *******?

 

I can tell that the OP is seeking to validate himself by asking this loaded question.... lol.

 

Women just want a guy who is confident in himself, and doesn't let people walk all over him.

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We must REALLY live in a superficial world then .

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Guy 2 doesn't even get a glance from me. I don't care that bored housewives love them as affair partners, even in our local club I show them the cold shoulder. With friends like these... :rolleyes:

 

Guy 1 I wouldn't take either though. I don't want to build my future with someone else, I build my own. We can walk side by side as friends but no holding hands, thank you.

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