No evidence of guy being bald in his OLD profile? What would you do?

[MissBee]

[No evidence in] pics that he was losing his hair and when you show you noticed he is "Balding"

 

Can you see yourself being turned off?

 

 

I don't know for a fact if that has been the case with me since I have had 3 rejections in a row. I really don't highlight in my pics that my hair is thinning but now I am thinking maybe I should have.

 

I know my physical flaws are my teeth and hair and the hair would be noticed before the teeth so I am thinking that is the case, the thinning hair. So i decided to highlight in my pics now that I have thinning hair because I am not used to all these rejections so close together.

 

 

So just wanting to ask the ladies could you see yourself being turned off if you met a guy face to face with thinning hair that was not evident in his pics?

 

When online dating you want the person to look like their picture (or better), not different and worse.

 

Some people don't like men who have thinning hair or are balding and if the pictures didn't indicate this then it will be a shock and turn off that they didn't prepare for.

 

With all things it's best to show as representative a picture as possible so that you at least know that when you meet the person they have chosen to go out with you with a more or less realistic image of you.

[MissBee]

See I am not sure it's the teeth because I had the same teeth in 1998 when I attracted several pretty women. But I do know it's one of them because it;s the two things that is not revealed in my pics

 

I also wouldn't be quick to assume that women are rejecting you only for physical reasons, because they hate your thinning hair or teeth. Maybe. But people also choose not to go out again because they don't like your personality, no chemistry etc.

[smg15]

I also wouldn't be quick to assume that women are rejecting you only for physical reasons, because they hate your thinning hair or teeth. Maybe. But people also choose not to go out again because they don't like your personality, no chemistry etc.

 

Yeah because I have never ever FLIRTED on a date lol

[Tayla]

most are born with no teeth and little hair, most in later years have the same status, what happens along the way ... says alot about evolving. Tending to ones health,being of good character...those are the things that set things apart. Have you asked your prospects what their thoughts are on these two topics? What does that say about the person?

[smg15]

most are born with no teeth and little hair, most in later years have the same status, what happens along the way ... says alot about evolving. Tending to ones health,being of good character...those are the things that set things apart. Have you asked your prospects what their thoughts are on these two topics? What does that say about the person?

 

I am going to UNDERSELL myself now since I want my account to grow and pay off my credit card. So I will not use nice pics only the ones that highlights the thinning hair. That way I won't have to worry about getting rejected if someone does respond to me.

[loveweary11]

Understand that I say this as someone probably old enough to be your mother and NOT a come on:

 

Based on that picture, I wouldn't care one whit about the hat.

 

I do have a very cute daughter btw lol

 

 

Awwww.. thank you very much.

 

My head is fully shaved these days, but I figured that pic would at least be something that didn't give away too much of my identity... lest someone I know is on here.

[Toodaloo]

smg...

 

Guy 3 at the moment is clearly going bald... well I say going... its gone.

 

Don't you know that a bald head is actually a solar panel for a sex machine??

 

You are as you are. If a woman doesn't like the way you are then its a simple case of she probably isn't the one for you.

 

Accept it and move on.

[smg15]

smg...

 

Guy 3 at the moment is clearly going bald... well I say going... its gone.

 

Don't you know that a bald head is actually a solar panel for a sex machine??

 

You are as you are. If a woman doesn't like the way you are then its a simple case of she probably isn't the one for you.

 

Accept it and move on.

 

 

 

Bald head is out of the question for me because I had brain surgery at 9 months old and that surgery scar would be VERY NOTICEABLE

[MissBee]

Yeah because I have never ever FLIRTED on a date lol

 

 

I'm not sure what flirting on a date has to do with anything.

 

Just because you flirt on a date doesn't mean the woman will like you or want to see you again.

 

However, if you think the ONLY reason women are turning you down is because of baldness and teeth, get fake teeth and a toupee and see how that works. Because apparently those are the only legit reasons to not like someone and there is no way they didn't click with or like you for other reasons...mmkay.

[smg15]

 

I'm not sure what flirting on a date has to do with anything.

 

Just because you flirt on a date doesn't mean the woman will like you or want to see you again.

 

However, if you think the ONLY reason women are turning you down is because of baldness and teeth, get fake teeth and a toupee and see how that works. Because apparently those are the only legit reasons to not like someone and there is no way they didn't click with or like you for other reasons...mmkay.

 

Meaning that I was too shy and quiet and nervous which made the girl uncomfortable

[Toodaloo]

Bald head is out of the question for me because I had brain surgery at 9 months old and that surgery scar would be VERY NOTICEABLE

 

But that could be sexy!

 

I went out with a guy who had a massive scar across one side of his face. I don't think it detracted from his looks at all. The scar was a V shape that went from the far corner of one eye down to his mouth then down and across his cheek to the back of his jaw...

 

Your hangups are not necessarily going to be another persons...

 

Attraction is a really weird thing...