chelseamoon Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 (edited) My ex broke up with me 5 months bac, we're both girls we continue to live together due to kids from prev rel & bills so moving out isnt option so need fiqure it out without doin that pls. Anyways i was heartbroken n still struggle to move on and she knows this but she doesnt want me so iv to accept. Anyways iv been super nice ro her last while. Mindin her child wen she needed it and been a friend. But problem is wen it comes to me asking to mind she makes me feel crap, becus my youngest is 6mts and her child is 2. If i go out (once every 2 months maybe) she gets all moody and says dont be ages. Anyways last week was my younger bros 21st i asked weeks ago was she ok to mind. Yes she said. On the day her kids had a flu, she made the remark that if she didnt improve she wont mind wen all she has to do is just fed if he wakes & put back sleep. Then shes like u can get me chinese since im mindin ur kids, den to save argument i said fine, den wen i said wat u want so she sulked and said nevermind. Den when i was out she texted updating every 20 mins den said her childs awake. So i cudnt relax was so embarrassed i came home and just went to bed. She texted y i was mad, he was fine. I just said i hardly ever ask u, i knew ud do this. She tb *** you back. Sooo this mornin shes all briar. She said i was stupid wen i asked y she said that and i just put it over my head as im sick of fighting. What do i do. How do i behave becus im sick of it and just want things go back way they where. Hate that i still love that. Edited April 12, 2015 by chelseamoon
GemmaUK Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 Simple solution, take responsibility and find a good babysitter so that this isn't an issue in the future. 1
CarrieT Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 You will get a lot more responses if you actually write with real words and complete sentences instead of "txt spk" which is almost illegible. What Gemma said: find a better babysitting solution and work on moving out. Your Ex is obviously an unreliable source and can't be relied upon to help - nor should you continue helping Her... 2
Satu Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 I agree that writing in real english would be better.... Ask nothing more of this person. I wouldn't leave a child with her.
Omei Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 I only slightly understand really couldn't follow. 1
introverted1 Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 Ok,you and your ex broke up 5 months ago and you have a 6 month old from a previous r/s. How long were you and the ex together? I understand you have to live together for the sake of finances but is there a reason you can't hire a babysitter when you go out? Overall, it seems it would be best to take steps to distance yourselves from each other.
road Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 I only slightly understand really couldn't follow. Den is the presence tense of Dent. Dens is the plural form of Den. Dent is the past tense form of Den. Got it? Get it? Good.
road Posted April 12, 2015 Posted April 12, 2015 My ex broke up with me 5 months bac, we're both girls we continue to live together due to..... ....you allowing her to use you. You need IC for you make one bad decision after another. You can not stay in relationships, had children in non-stable relationship or worse yet chose to be a single parent. You chose to become a parent when you were not able to financially take care of the child. You let this other woman abuse you instead of moving out. You do not reach out to your parents for temporary housing. It appears you only make life decisions based today and never long term as in years from now.
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